Things to Know Before You Say "Go"


Before falling head over heels, there are some key questions you need to ask yourself.  Dr. Elsbeth Martindale, Psy.D., author of the new book and deck of cards, Things to Know Before You Say "Go,"  joined us today to explain her system that has helped many people make good decisions when starting new relationships.


You'll find a free i phone application with 10 of the key quesitons, right here.

You'll find Things to Know Before You Say "Go" at Portland area bookstores and online.

Here is a description of the book and cards:

Things to Know Before You Say "Go" book and cards offer individuals a unique and powerful method of examining romantic partnership. Pick up the deck and sort the cards into piles based on your personal questions or intentions.
For example, you may want to ask:

What matters most to me in a romantic relationship?
How does my current love interest match up with my values and desires?
Why did my last relationship fail so miserably?
What do I want my daughter or son to understand about partnership choices?

By examining the cards and answering the 76 questions, you enter into a very personal and extraordinary exploration of values, desires and limits. You will discover how much you know or don’t know about your expectations for future, current, or past relationships. The cards will stir deep dialogue with another person and/or they can be used in personal contemplation and reflection. No matter how they are sorted, explored, or discussed, these cards are sure to lead you to new knowledge about yourself and your partnership choices.


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