Dating Advice for the New Year
Dating Coach Donna Dzwonkas says that singles need to be better prepared to meet someone.
Each person needs to know what the 3 or 4 unique points about yourself. Ex: hobbies, volunteer, this would be more interesting than saying “I am a grandmother” or a “marathon runner”.
What 3 or 4 things are you going to tell someone, that makes you different than the next door neighbor?
I have a client that paints and she didn’t think that was interesting enough and never shared this hobby at my Minglers. She has an art show in 2 weeks! She will be dressed up at and showing her art work at a gallery. Of course that would be interesting to a man who likes art and should be shared when she first meets a man. That be a great way to show her own unique style to a man.
If you are confident let that show, if you are a funny person, let that show.
Screening – you must know yourself! If you are looking for someone and you don’t want to date a depressed person than ask them about their schedule. Find out if they have any energy, what have they done with their life recently? Ask them what have you done in the last week that you are excited about?
Ex: Dont talk about your recent surgery or your divorce.
You need to be aware of how you are being heard and viewed by someone you want to know for romantic purposes.
If you go to a mixer and you are drinking too much or you have a V-neck blouse that shows creped skin and you are heavy, what kind of impression are you sending to the other person. People look over and make a decision in one second.
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