'Deadliest Catch' star: 'I pretty much hate people because of this'
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SEATTLE -- A young man who desperately needed help was taken advantage of by a mysterious stranger, and now a famous family friend is speaking out about what he calls a "deception with dire consequences."
For the first time, Johnathan Hillstrand, star of Discovery Channel's "Deadliest Catch," is talking about how he says he was deceived by a heartless stranger.
Last June, a woman claiming to be an Indiana nurse began communicating with Hillstrand over Twitter.
"So I start talking to her, she starts saying, 'I love you,' and stuff. I sort of got scared, and she was going to come meet me twice," he said.
Instead, the woman stood him up twice in Anchorage, so he called things off.
It was later that Hillstrand learned that a family friend and neighbor in Maple Valley was in a life-or-death situation. Hillstrand stepped in to help, making a 20 minute video for 20-year-old Thomas Doty, who was battling a rare form of bone cancer.
Hillstrand asked his fans to help, too.
"I was trying to help them out to raise money for their son," he said.
The woman who had stood him up earlier contacted him again, saying she would donate $250,000 for Doty's treatment.
Then came a month of wild tales and fake checks, but no actual money. Doty eventually got the treatment he needed, but it was too late. He died in December.
The entire incident has left Hillstand with a bad taste in his mouth.
"I hate the Internet, and I pretty much hate people because of this," he said.
But Hillstrand said the woman's celebrity obsession continued, even after Doty's death.
"She took pictures in front of my house here, and pictures in front of my store in Alaska," he said.
Hillstrand and the Doty family feel the woman is partially responsible for Thomas' death. Authorities are investigating, but there are few laws on the books that apply, because it seems the woman did not benefit financially.
"I can't believe there at not any repercussion for this. It makes me sick," Hillstrand said.
Earlier this month, a woman in Florida was so moved by Doty's story that she did some online digging and thinks she has figured out who the mystery woman is. Meanwhile, the Doty family have another problem -- their Maple Valley home is scheduled for foreclosure auction on Friday.
For the first time, Johnathan Hillstrand, star of Discovery Channel's "Deadliest Catch," is talking about how he says he was deceived by a heartless stranger.
Last June, a woman claiming to be an Indiana nurse began communicating with Hillstrand over Twitter.
"So I start talking to her, she starts saying, 'I love you,' and stuff. I sort of got scared, and she was going to come meet me twice," he said.
Instead, the woman stood him up twice in Anchorage, so he called things off.
It was later that Hillstrand learned that a family friend and neighbor in Maple Valley was in a life-or-death situation. Hillstrand stepped in to help, making a 20 minute video for 20-year-old Thomas Doty, who was battling a rare form of bone cancer.
Hillstrand asked his fans to help, too.
"I was trying to help them out to raise money for their son," he said.
The woman who had stood him up earlier contacted him again, saying she would donate $250,000 for Doty's treatment.
Then came a month of wild tales and fake checks, but no actual money. Doty eventually got the treatment he needed, but it was too late. He died in December.
The entire incident has left Hillstand with a bad taste in his mouth.
"I hate the Internet, and I pretty much hate people because of this," he said.
But Hillstrand said the woman's celebrity obsession continued, even after Doty's death.
"She took pictures in front of my house here, and pictures in front of my store in Alaska," he said.
Hillstrand and the Doty family feel the woman is partially responsible for Thomas' death. Authorities are investigating, but there are few laws on the books that apply, because it seems the woman did not benefit financially.
"I can't believe there at not any repercussion for this. It makes me sick," Hillstrand said.
Earlier this month, a woman in Florida was so moved by Doty's story that she did some online digging and thinks she has figured out who the mystery woman is. Meanwhile, the Doty family have another problem -- their Maple Valley home is scheduled for foreclosure auction on Friday.
That is heart breaking that someone would offer to donate to a sick person and then .... not. What's wrong with some people?
@Just_one_opinion they are evil
Welcome to Fame and Forture John. You love the money you got from Discovery Channel, but now you don't want to deal with the stuff all other famous people deal with? Sorry..something about having a cake and eating it too? Not saying the chick that duped you (if it IS a chick..go ask Manti Te'o) isn't sick, but don't go crying to the very same media, that turned you into a B-reality show celebrity, and filled your bank account.
Catfish: The Deadliest Catch!
I wouldn't say that she's responsible for his death, but I totally agree with him because people hide behind the internet and you don't know who you are talking to. But you still have to be cautious yourself. Too many people think that the internet is harmless when its not....like the people who fall for the Nigeria scam and send all this to someone who they think love them, etc. Yeah we're all down on our luck, whether financially or even emotionally, but unless you have met someone in person and know who they are as a person, then you probably shouldn't be sending them money or going along with their charade that they love you, etc....lesson learned
Sounds like an obsessed sick stalker. Stage 3 clinger!! Crazy. Being a celebrity isn't all its cracked up to be.
This reminds me of some types I've communicated with on craigslist, who will alternately seem obsessed, then interested, or suddenly cruel, or just vanish after a certain number of emails. (B. Ann S., this is for you). Â Say what you mean, mean what you say, and stop wasting people's time.
Lots of celebrity groupies are probably secret man-haters, chasing an image, not an actual man. You women know who you are. Borderline prostitutes.
I can't vouch for the other side of the coin, but I'm sure it works both ways.
The sole purpose of some people is simply to serve as a warning to others.
Not that others will pay attention...
And the eternal wheel goes 'round and 'round.
The internet is an evil thing. People are irresponsible and cruel. You just don't meet up with strangers online, period. Trust & words are a powerful thing. Sorry for your loss.
@KBÂ The internet is a network of computers. Hardly what you would call "an evil thing". Don't believe anything a stranger tells you, whether in person or through the computer. The person on the other end could be mean and evil, mentally ill or just plain frooty. Â Like everything, the internet can be used for good or bad.Â
If you put Bait in the water you will get a Bite, you just never know what it is until it comes to the surface.
@swede760 Bottom dwellers sharks or crabs.  Or  bottoms w/crabs.
Seriously?? Â What is he,, like 12? Â *FACEPALM*
I feel sorry for Doty, that part is very sad but I can't see how the moron woman could be blamed for that..
If anything the capt. shares some blame.. Seems like he was busy chasing a good time on the Net instead of working to raise funds..
What a maroon!Â
Can't fix stupid.
He seems crabby
@Bert LOL
Most of the time the shes are hes on the internet and visa versa. it's just the way it is ---people like to screw with ya! I can't believe this guy doesn't know that. The rest of the world has been on board about it for decades now.
@Philip Marlowe Well I'm a REAL she but I'm not stupid enough to look for love on the Net. *shakes head*
How the hell do you "fall for someone" over the internet? You should hire Mante Tio to be on your boat. Maybe you guys can write a book, like...maybe.....mmmm...."Keyboard Love"?Â
Dude, your cheese has slipped off your cracker!
Hello Captain Obvious! Â Uh, I mean Hillstrand... Â This isn't your first time around the block sweetheart. Â Wake up.
Just because you fell for this doesn't give you a basis for hating people. Â Maybe you should be looking in the mirror.
I don't get it... aside from his wasting time with her, what's the problem? How is she "partially responsible for Thomas' death"?
@estrus I like your comment but I LOVE your avatar! AWESOME!Â
KATU... Kara Kostanich should look in the mirror as she tells her stories. A grieving mother, A 20 year old man dies, A house is in fore-closer and Kara tells the story smiling with shiny lip gloss. Very Sad she thinks this is a story that deserves smilesÂ
im looking for a woman named Dinga, for marraige. looks unimportant, prefer hwp lt. smoker, 420 freindly, lite bondage/roleplay. coffee? meth?
I can't trust people on the internet??? Crap!
@deejm2112 Of course you can. You can't put anything on the internet that isn't true. In fact, I have a long lost uncle in Nigeria that wants to share some of his fortune. Are you interested?
@scoreboard @deejm2112 Nigerian sweepstakes are the only ones I win
@scoreboard @deejm2112 Hey, I was just spinning that ... I promise I didn't notice that five hours ago, you were already spinning it, so don't sue me, okay?  Although I'm rich and you could get lots of money from me, if you do.  But it's so not-fun to be sued.  How about if you just give me your bank account information and I'll wire $250,000 to you, and we forget the lawsuit?
@SilverGuardian @scoreboard @deejm2112 Sure thing: 123456654321
@scoreboard @deejm2112 Crazy! I have one too! what a coincidence!
@deejm2112Â You can trust me.
@Sundowner @deejm2112 Cool...I love you and miss you!
(I seem to remember reading you're a chick)
@deejm2112 @Sundowner Let's 3-way!  I'll tell you lies to tell to Sundowner to repeat back to me to dance to!  No, wait ... I'm too crickety to dance.  You tell ME lies to twist in my old-lady way and tell to Sundowner and let Sundowner dance.  Or .. oh, I'll say I'm dancing, but I won't really do it, but you'll believe me cuz this is the internet and you can't post anything on the internet that isn't true.  (Signed: French Model)
I got sick once because I ate something bad, so now I hate food because of that.
That guy isn't the brightest bulb in the room.
@JGalt You POOR thang!  Can I have your steak?
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@Dr. Rawdog Well you know they can't put anything on the internet that isn't true.
âNot everything you read in the internet is trueâAbraham Lincoln
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Cracked me up when I first saw it also.
Interesting story. Â Now let's have a story (including a bunch of pix) about Captain Elliott from the Ramblin' Rose. Â He's WAY cuter. Â KATU -- eye candy needed, please.
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@Dr. Rawdog @Sundowner Looks like they deleted all our comments. Someone didn't like it.
@scoreboard @Sundowner @Dr. Rawdog it's a conspiracy signal
maybe because if the boot fits, wear it?? ; )
@Sundowner @scoreboard @Dr. Rawdog Weird, now all the comments are back. Hmmm.........
@scoreboard @Dr. Rawdog And they left up my red _____ boots comment?  Now that's just not fair....makes me look cheap.  =)
@Dr. Rawdog @Sundowner They showed some of the tamer parts of Elliott's behavior on the show. The man needs some help. He's a psychopath.
@Ken Ling Deal.  You can't miss me.  I'll be the young, hot, sexy chick in the red **** ** boots with the "Miss Oregon" sash and tiara.  Oh, and I'm bringing my roller skates and a "not" wedding cake.  You?
@Sundowner @scoreboard @Dr. Rawdog Comment wasn't to you directly or even an attempt at a slam on you. I was just commenting about him and my opinion. :)
What you want to do behind closed doors of a cheap motel is none of my business. Knock yourself out. ;)
@Sundowner cool...i am the winner of an international lottery. just need to get ahold of a pesky $21,000,000 to get the payout of &12,786, 900,006.12, and by chance im a royalty fetish club president, stunningly gorgous, "gifted" in many ways and generous to a fault!  additionally i recorded 11 albums with judas priest, (just studio) . dont want to give too much away! **wink** motel 6 on burnside  2pm?
@Ken Ling See?  I said you were sweet (which was a mistake at the time, since I confused you with someone else, but still...).  That's a very generous offer.  In order for me to have confidence about your sincerity, I'll share some secret information with you.  I am the Queen of Nigeria, and I have $42,000,000 I'd like to share with you....your turn.
@Sundowner As i midop tranny mtf i sense your needs and am willing to do what it takes...in the spirit of 'random act of kinkness"
@scoreboard @Dr. Rawdog And your point?  Jeesh, I didn't want to marry the guy, just wanted an hour or two alone with him in a cheap motel in....never mind, I got distracted.