Father of man killed in mall shooting says guns not the problem
WEST LINN, Ore. – The father of the man shot and killed last month at Clackamas Town Center said Thursday he wants education instead of gun bans.
Ron Forsyth’s son, Steve, was killed in December at the mall when a gunman opened fire while working at his coaster business.
Ron Forsyth said the man who shot his son used a stolen gun and doesn’t think gun bans would keep people from using stolen weapons.
For Forsyth, the national debate on gun control is difficult, and even after his son’s death, he has no hatred for guns.
"Blaming a weapon for a death is like blaming a pencil for a misspelled word," he said at his son's dream home for his wife and two children, which is now for sale. "It's a tool, that's all. And as such, we should learn how to use it correctly."
Forsyth said he would like to see less violence on TV and in the movies as well as less killing in video games. He said education for kids is needed to make them less callous about life and death and to counteract the simulated computer killing kids do for entertainment.
"They sit at a console, they put on weight, they go diabetes early, and they kill things. And to me, that's sad," he said.
Forsyth would also like to see better background check information and protection for doctors who declare someone to be too mentally unstable to own a gun. Additionally, he said he'd like to see better storage for guns, locked boxes or safes so that people can access them in times of need but thieves can’t get into them.
Inside his son's home Thursday, Forsyth hoped for change, thought of his son's sense of humor, his loyalty and his life.
"He was a great kid. I'm very proud of him," he said. "I miss him. I miss him a lot."
Forsyth said a friend will try to keep his son's coaster business going to keep his entrepreneurial ideas alive.
"Blaming a weapon for a death is like blaming a pencil for a misspelled word," he saidÂ
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Mr Forsyth speaks with the wisdom of Job.Â
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I'm reminded of a post I saw recently. A person was exersizing their 1st amendment rights outside a gun store with a sign that read 'guns kill people'.
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Standing right next to him was a gentleman also exersizing his 1st amendment rights holding a sign that said 'my spoon made me overweight'.
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If guns don't kill, how come no one picks up a pea shooter instead of a gun when they want to kill something?
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If guns don't kill, how come we don't let children play with them?
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If guns don't kill, how come kids kill other kids everyday while mis-handling them? After all, you say it's not the gun it's the intent of the person shooting the gun, right? So those kids are murderers apparently.
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Slogans only go so far and this one has lived far too long. Where's my gun...
 @ormom  @MarkKpic >'If guns don't kill, how come no one picks up a pea shooter instead of a gun when they want to kill something?'
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Can you show me where I said "guns don't kill"?
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>'If guns don't kill, how come we don't let children play with them?'
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Again, can you show me where I made the statement that 'guns dont kill'?
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Secondly, it's for the same reason that we don't let... well, for the same reason that I don't let, a child play with a saw, a running vehicle, or a bottle of drain cleaner. Because they're not toys, they are tools designed with a very specific intent. Children 'playing' with them are not using them in their proper (intended) use, therefore I would not allow them to 'play' with them... Secondly, because they are dangerous when they are 'played' with.
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Of course, the point could be made that there are irresponsible people out there who DO let their children 'play' with things like knives, guns and kitchen cleaner. In such instances, it is the adult who is typically charged (appropriately) in the resulting criminal trial.Â
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'If guns don't kill, how come kids kill other kids everyday while mis-handling them?'
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Again, please show me where I made the statement that 'guns dont kill'.Â
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There are people who kill others by misusing cars, tractors, lawn mowers, nail guns, fireworks, alcohol, train tracks, etc.... I guess the answer to your question would be, because there are some pretty foolish people in the world who do not properly secure and/or properly educate their children about the very real dangers that exist when someone drives, plays in the road, uses a lawn mower, or mishandles a firearm.
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"After all, you say it's not the gun it's the intent of the person shooting the gun, right?"
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I did? Where did I say that?
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"So those kids are murderers apparently."
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Well, it would depend on the circumstances, but there are several options that the local judiciary has;
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163.145¹ Criminally negligent homicide
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163.118¹ Manslaughter in the first degree
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163.125¹ Manslaughter in the second degree
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I would think that manslaughter charges would be easier to convict on, but that's assuming that the local prosecuting attorney chooses to go forward with prosecution. If it was truly an accident, it's entirely likely that they will decline to prosecute the child. The owner of the gun, however, could very well face charges relating to the incident.Â
 @ormom  @MarkKpic So, it wasn't my words that offended you, it was actually (your paraphrasing of) the statement by Mr Forsyth that you take issue with?Â
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A bit ironic that you lash out at someone who supports a victims family member when they speak from their heart about their opinions of the issue. Not at all dissimilar to lashing out at an inanimate objects, and generalizing all people who possess them because of the reprehensible actions of a few with them.
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It's referred to as an emotional response. And although it's understandable where it comes from, it's a terrible place from which to craft laws and legislation. By definition, emotional responses are neither rational or well thought out. Â
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The quote from the article you thought was so wise is simply another way of saying guns don't kill people, people kill people.
 @ormom  @MarkKpic Yeah ormom and yours grows tiresome as well. Guns only kill if a human chooses to do so with it. Millions of people use guns daily and never kill a soul with them.  Kids playing with guns and killing other kids are the product of careless and irresponsible parents. Should they be charged with murder, no because that doesn't fit the description of murder. Perhaps negligent homicide or manslaughter. I am all for people with children in the house having their guns locked up. To not do so is irresponsible. However, that has nothing to do with adults stealing guns and choosing to commit crimes with them.
Sorry for the loss of your son Mr. Forsyth. Thank you for speaking out and speaking out with some common sense. God Bless...
I'm VERY sorry for your loss.. I am VERY thankful for your common sense...
I'm calling hypocrite on every gun nut on this blog who doesn't come out loud and long against any suggestion of a 1st amendment restriction on the violent content of video games, movies, etc. After all, they don't have any detrimental effect on law-abiding and mentally stable people. Restrictions would simply hurt normal people who get hours of fun from these activites and the mentally unstable will always be able to get their hands on them. Right?
 @ormom Mr. Forsyth made no suggestion of any 1st amendment restrictions. Wishing to see less violence on TV, movies, and games is a very long ways from demanding legal restrictions on them to collectively punish the many tens of millions of peaceful consumers. By a similar token, I think grand theft auto is an atrocious game, uzis are overrated, and promag magazines are garbage, but that doesn't mean I want legal restrictions on any of them.
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Regarding your sarcastic turnaround of arguments, I don't get it. You're the one who thinks that argument doesn't apply to certain rights, while to the rest of us that sounds like a perfectly valid defense of any right.
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If you are as willing to defend the 1st amendment as much as the 2nd (and all others) then you are not one of the people I was eluding too. There are plenty of gun nut blowhards on this blog who would vote to turn over your medical records or ban certain types of media if they thought it would prevent a ban on any kind of gun or ammunition. They are true Johnny-one-note hypocrites and they are not answering my challenge for that reason.
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One of them showed his true colors on the Yashawnee Vaughn thread when he proposed tearing up laws that weren't worth the paper they were written on for the duty to protect children. His whole screed could have been used to make an argument for much stronger gun control. He showed what a hypocrite he is and there are others just like him.
 @ormom The only gun NUTS I know of
are people who wish to place more controls on them.
Well, I am NOT a "Gun nut" as you so blithely call some people, butsuffce it to say, I (When younger) watched countless hours of sat morning cartoons, where that pesky coyote did various things which ended up always hurting himsef...But that was violent. I have seen the entire "Hellraser" series and most of those movies with Jason, Never dd like Mr. Kruger.
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Suffice it to say, I have NEVER wanted to kill anyone due to what I have seen on tv or in the movies. I guess I am just your average SANE individual. (The type which looks for smart ways to control gun access, without harming a persons righty to choose if they want to own one)
 @ormom I've gotta do it, LOL!
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We need to have background checks on all those that want to make and or purchase violent movies and video games. Those that own them must be over 18 and if they are going to carry them outside of the home they need to register and get a permit to do so. No one under 18 should be able to view or use them without adult supervision, and if caught doing so both the youth and adult in charge of such movie or game would be punished.
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We need a band on all unrated and x-rated movie, since they are the cause of all rapes and brutal attacks. We cannot trust adults to control themselves with the content of these videos.
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When not in use, violent movies and video games should be locked up in a safe so that no youth or criminal can steal and use them illegally.
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End sarcasm.
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Sounds kinda ridicules. But the first paragraph is how guns are controlled now, but violent video games and movies aren't. The second paragraph resembles what many want to do with high capacity clips and assault (looking) rifles.Â
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I can make the distinction between guns, violent video games and movies. I also know that free speech is a tool that can be used to incite violence and guns are a tool that can be used to commit that violence. I'm still not against free speech or the right to own and carry guns.
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 @DJK  @ormom I was fine until you tried to take away my porn.,,,that's just taking it too far.
 @deejm2112  @DJK  @ormom Nobody NEEDS porn! Assault porn is only meant for inciting rape! /sarcasm
 @deejm2112  @ormom LOL, okay maybe if you call your rep and join the NVVGA (National Violent Video and Game Association) they won't do that;-)
 @ormom Just because the 1st amendment gives someone the right to create a violent video game, doesn't mean the video game developer HAS to do it. Â
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9 hours in and nothing but sarcasm. It's pretty much what I expected.
Thank you KATU for bringing this story. Some other media outlets would have buried it in the back 40, or totally misrepresented it to suit their political agenda.
 @jpk They presented it to suit their financial agenda.
America has many problems but sadly enough these problems are not being addressed correctly. People used to go outside instead of being programmed by the screen called TV. People knew their neighbors. There was fabric to this society. A strong fabric. Try this on any day of the year. Turn off the TV and go outside. Look around. How many people do you see ? Out of all the people that you see how many are kids ? What you will find is that on any given day people are indoors watching TV or playing video games. Since most people think this is acceptable it becomes difficult to explain in a way that is understood of just why this is really not a good thing. Kids are really fat and so are most adults. It's really noticeable when traveling out of this country. We are a nation that works hard no doubt. We put in a lot of hours working. To offset this people put processed food into their bodies because its easier and sometimes less expensive. Now there wanting to escape so they place processed thoughts into their minds through TV. It's staring right at us. People are not thinking for themselves enough and just accept what the government and the media are saying. It's not supposed to be like this. People will be healthier by just making changes a little at a time. Eating better. Going for walks. Talking with neighbors. Etc. this may sound simplistic but these are things that a large part of our modern society no longer do. Why is our modern behavior harmful ? Because a large part of society isn't functioning properly. This is why there is so much anger and hostility. As challenging as it is we must be the change that we want to see in others. So guns are not the problem or even part of the problem. How about curbing all or at least most of the (GUN) violence on TV ! ? Kids spend hours,playing games like CALL OF DUTY where hour after hour they are seeing the their world THE SCREEN through a gun sight. Our minds are powerfull. Just the thought of something elicits behavior. This is why advertising works so well. How about public service announcements dealing with gun safety. Ask the NRA to pay for it. Use billboards as well. These tools are used for other social issues such as birth control and teen pregnancy,domestic abuse,drug abuse,seatbelts,missing people,etc. why not gun safety ? I've been asking this question for years. Things can be different. Change is hard for people, but it is still possible. What are we waiting for ? The government to fix all of our problems ? That is never going to happen. Pose this question to those that you converse with. Ask them " What book are you reading ? See what response you get. Now go do some target practicing.
 @A TRUE PATRIOT I couldn't agree more! Thank you for mirroring pretty much everything I said earlier today in my comments on this same story. Last weekend when we had such beautiful weather I took my dog for a walk in the afternoon around my neighborhood and on some nearby trails. I saw only seven people out. SEVEN! On such a nice day. Pathetic and sad. There are so many disconnects in society that need to be mended. If we can mend society a lot of what we are seeing will fix itself.
"It's a too, that's all. And as such, we should learn how to use it correctly."
uUUUUUUhm. Looks like the shooter of those stolen guns knew how to use it well enough. Thank goodness he wasn't a highly trained individual. The losses would have been much worse. We can ban certain types of guns, but try banning mental illness or the human ability for theft. Unless we're ready to give a little we cant' take a little. I'd trade my cousin's gun related death for a ban. But that's just me.
I know your hurting but Banning anything isn't going to change a thing. If these shooters had high powered rifles or a shot gun more people would be dead. If I lost a loved one due to a shooting I'm sure that thought would go through my mind. Reality is that things don't work like this. Peace to you.
Mr. Forsyth, thank you for responding in an intelligent manner. A gun is a tool that can be misused by an evil person. Power by misused by Bloomberg, Obama, Holder and that ilk are far more dangerous. Propaganda Minister Jay Carney, stop the lies, answer the questions and quit feeding the hysteria.
@The Resistance Hmmm ... a little off topic but well said even so.
@agateriver sorry and thanks, this whole thing rubs me the wrong way.
"They sit at a console, they put on weight, they go diabetes early, and they kill things. And to me, that's sad," he said.
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@Scott Oviatt What part isn't true? Kids sitting in front of video games? Kids getting diabetes? Or that it makes this gentleman sad? Can you be more specific?
We all know that majority of kids are playing video games. And according to the CDC 151,000 children and adolescents are diagnosed with diabetes every year.
@Scott Oviatt ---what's not true? It may not happen immediately, but there's plenty of time for that to happen. I know a lot of people with multiple gaming consoles and they aren't playing Candyland.
@Scott Oviatt OK Scott, but yelling won't prove your point. How about it Scott, as pertains to this issue, what is true. Please answer without using that old hack about "guns kill" because our police carry them. Heart attacks kill more frequently, maybe we should ban those as well.
I think young people are de-sensitized through increasingly violent video games and movies, along with a lack of parental involvement.  Society is slowly losing its moral compass and these shootings are the result of that.  Most school shootings are done by kids who have been made fun of and feel ostracized from their peers.  They feel they have no one to turn to, develop mental problems and snap.  I agree in order to buy any gun you need to be thoroughly background checked.  Also requiring gun locks/safes for all guns and holding gun owners responsible to secure their guns. These things would help school shooting because kids will have a much harder time accessing guns, but will not stop adult criminals from gaining access to any type of gun, and that is a problem we have not figured out the solution to.  A ban on "Assault weapons" is not the solution, it didn't work last time.  Deterioration in society as a whole is the reason why these shootings are more commonplace, and we have to take the responsibility for that instead of just blaming the weapons.
I truly sympathies with Mr. Forsyth for the loss of his son and for the wife and kids he left behind. However I think is rational is a bit misguided. I don't believe there should be a complete gun ban nor do the majority of American including our president. I do think there needs to much stricter rules on people registering guns, background checks, and the owning of assualt weapons that have mega clips that can spit out 30 or more bullets in less than a minute. These things only make logical sense. Will it stop every shooting NO. Will it stop mass slaying at the hands of one derranged lunatic with a single assualt weapon quite possibly. Coulld stricter rules on background checks prevent some of these lunatics from getting a gun probably. If stricter rules prevent one shooting from occurring it is one more than is being stopped now. And to use Mr. Forsyth's own analogy blaming video games or tv for this is like blaming a pencil for a miss spelled word. I grew up watching westerns and war movies on Saturday afternoon at the theater. I nor my friends ever had the desire to take our fathers guns and shoot people. One area that should be focussed on is mental health and illegal drugs and perscrition anti depressant.
 @Oglethorpe We can shoot more than 30 rounds a minute without a high-cap magazine, fool. That's what we're trying to tell you. Stop talking about what makes logical sense until you demonstrate some idea of what you're talking about to those of us who have demonstrated ourselves to the military, the county and the State of Oregon.You people are so in denial that you can't bring yourself to admit that Harris used 13 low-capacity magazines at Columbine... it only takes a second to reload them, you just configure your belt differently.  In fact, I can load 10-round stripper clips into my big-bad assault rifle, OR 30-round magazines, but I use the clips because I can load faster, the weapon is lighter, it enforces fire discipline, and it jams less.So by banning 30-round magazines, all you're actually doing is forcing my rifle to look less scary, and operate much better. You guys are freakin' BRILLIANT.
@Playanekes @Oglethorpe I think that's exactly what he's saying. "Since those of us who aren't Gun Savvy, what alternatives can the gun wielding community offer us who don't a comprimise on the issue?"
@Playanekes @Oglethorpe ---we'll said!
@Playanekes@Oglethorpe One major difference in Columbine is the tactical response by LE where they waited (and waited) because they were concerned with officer safety first. Because of Columbine they changed tactical response and no longer wait.
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Theoretically (here I go again) deaths from an unskilled shooter or person who is not familiar with the weapon could have an impact in body count BUT magazine size would probably not have had an impact with the Newtown shooter since he was very familiar with his weapons.
The fact that his son was killed is tragic but that does not make this person's opinion any greater than yours or mine. Maybe if trigger locks were required or gun safes were required - and used - this would not have happened. Doing nothing about guns seems ineffective in addressing the problem we have with people being killed at the barrel of a gun. Since Newtown, there have been over 900 people killed. We have a problem.
 @jbloe  I have a feeling that were he to have come down on the other side of the issue, his opinion would be the only one that mattered to you.
@HenryBowman And you would be wrong about that.
Most all new gun sales come with a trigger lock. You believe every thing you are told. 900 people have died since Newton ? I'm laughing at you ! Get a clue dude. Doing the wrong thing for the right reason isn't helping WE THE PEOPLE. Guns are here to stay. You need to decide who you want to have owning those guns.
@A TRUE PATRIOT I can't argue that I have 100% reliable first-hand knowledge of every killing. I, like you, have to rely on statistics published by reliable and credible sources. I have seen many reports that put the number of gun deaths at or about 10000 people per year in the US. If that number is accurate, that would make about 833 murders per month. It has been over a month since Newtown. Do the math and 900 killings since Newtown is not far off - it is likely more than that by this morning.
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The US does not have the highest rate of gun murders per capita. There are many smaller 3rd world countries with higher murder rates per capita. These countries by and large are not countries the US should consider itself in league with â economically, socially, our means of governance and so on. In other words, just because there are more murderous societies in the world that end up with more gun deaths per capita does not mean that people in the US should use them as an argument against making an effort to solve the problem here.
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If you are saying you have proof to the contrary in in terms of numbers of killings by guns in the US, I will listen.
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These stats from FactCheck seem to be fairly balanced and use actual numbers and math. Of course, like any other analysis, there is argument as to cause and effect of RTC laws and crime rates, including murder rates.
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http://factcheck.org/2012/12/gun-rhetoric-vs-gun-facts/
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It should be noted that no one is proposing to take your guns. The proposals on the table today are not as unreasonable as the gun-nut lobby is saying. One of the proposals is the requirement for background checks for nearly every gun sale. That is something the gun lobby has opposed in the past. It seems an obvious first-step.
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It should also be noted that the Second Amendment does not say you have a right to have any weapon. I think most people would say you don't have a right to have a nuclear weapon. We can start there and back down. At some point an equilibrium would be reached and we would find what makes sense to the majority.
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The Second Amendment also states 'a well-regulated militia'. I know about the Heller case and I think there is is still something of a question around the concept of what the authors intended by using the term 'a well-regulated militia'. When you read the Second Amendment, it is fairly simple. One sentence. I read it as intending to define one right - not two rights.
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I would, using your words, suggest that you get a clue, dude. Doing nothing is not working. We've been doing nothing for decades now and it is not working. Doing nothing is how we ended up where we are today with thousands of our citizens dead. Maybe doing something or proposing ideas you have that would help work towards lowering the gun deaths (assuming you have any ideas outside of the 'more guns' argument), would actually help preserve your gun rights. With more and more of these crazy killings likely to happen and with more incidents where gun freaks walk around in neighborhoods with AR-15's over their shoulders like we saw in downtown Portland to 'educate the public', you can see public 'education' taking place. Public opnion is seems to be swining away from the simplistic notion that 'more guns' will solve the problem in any way at all. The people who are opposed to the 'more guns' argument vote too. Public opinion is WE THE PEOPLE. Dude, public opinion IS democracy in action. With events like these mass killings, losing 10000 people a year outside of the mass killings and seeing people like these gun totoing screwballs 'educating the public' happening all around us, we stand a greater chance of losing more of our gun rights than the legislation currently being proposed. In the end, the optics of these mass shootings and killings of over 10000 Americans a year gets people's attention and will utlmately impact public opinion. Get a clue.
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Remember, there are few absolute rights. The Constitution was clearly intended to be changed as society and the world we live in evolved. Looking at the history of this country and the Constitution, I would be willing to bet the Founding Fathers would be shocked to find us using the same document over 200 years later and arguing about the Second Amendment the way we are in the face of the weaponry we have today. Do you think the framers of the Constitution and the authors of the Second Amendment would have intended for everyone to have a fully automatic weapon that can fire hundreds of armor-piercing bullets a minute or were they thinking about muzzle-loading muskets and the British invaders?
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Gun locks are included with new guns. All the legislation won't change anything. Look at any program in where the gubmint tried to control something. Alcohol,drugs,prostitution,gambling. The last big news shootings happened with stolen weapons. That said people steal anything. How about automobiles. These things are very highly regulated but people still steel them and use them to commit crimes. So tell me again how gun control works
@A TRUE PATRIOT Gun control - no matter how it is defined â wonât stop every shooting. That is obvious. That is also not an excuse to do nothing.
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Using the automobile as an analogy in any case, is clearly wrong. First of all, the two are different. A car is meant to solve a problem of transporting people. The fact that people steal (not steel) cars or that people are killed in cars does not change that. The gun is meant to kill. Period.
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When we had a problem with cars, we determined that training and licensing of the drivers was required. When cars were being stolen, we increased security with loking devices. When we had a problem with people getting injured or killed in them, we added seat belts and impact/crumple zones. We required people to have financial responsibility when driving cars to help indemnify the people who were hit by someone driving a car. We limit the type of car and the speed you can drive them. When we found too many people were being killed by drunk drivers, we increased penalties and lowered the BAC. All of these were done as a matter of legislation (i.e.: laws were passed). The result of all these laws is fewer and fewer deaths by automobiles. This is proven by statistics. I am sure that very few people would argue against the majority of safety features and the laws related to cars. It should be pointed out that it was not ONE of these laws that increased safety and responsibility of autmobiles and their operation. It was all of them together that got us where we are today.
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We have over 10000 people a year killed outside of the mass shootings that are very much in the news. We have far more killings than any other nation. We have more guns than any other nation. And we do nothing.
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We have people trying to compare cars to guns. Where is the connection? Amazing.
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@jbloe I disagree with you about the value of his opinion. Since he was so directly affected, I give extra credit to his opinion over yours. I do agree with you that we "have a problem". I am sure that we dont agree on what that problem is.
@scared_citizen I respect your perspective on his opinion. On that question, we should not forget that since this shooting, there are more than 900Â addiutional families who have lost bothers, sisters, sons, daughters, husbands and wives. As a society, we don't determine policy based on the opinions of one person but by the will of the majority.
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The problem is we are losing tens of thousands of lives every year at the barrel of a gun.
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It is the solution we can't seem to find consensus on.
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My point is simple here: Doing nothing or simply adding more guns is clearly not working. The statistics tell us that much.
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Now here's a man we all can admire. Deeply. Truth teller. Ethical voice of all. And someone who loves his son. And admires all his son stood for.
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Good for you, Mr. Forsyth. My admiration for you knows no bounds. Read and re-read this news story. It is the most informative and relevant published piece about what is going on in our country - that has been posted on the internet in a long, long time. And this man's words matter. Most of all. Thank you, Ron Forsyth. And God bless.Â
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