Same-sex couples exchange wedding vows, celebrate in Wash.
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SEATTLE (AP) — Same-sex couples in Washington state began reciting wedding vows at events across the state Sunday, on the first day they could marry after the state's gay marriage law took effect.
About 140 couples had registered to marry at Seattle City Hall, which had set up five separate chapels to accommodate the revelers. Starting at 10 a.m., cheers and applause regularly broke out as another couple's marriage became official. Weddings at city hall were to continue through 5 p.m.
Mayor Mike McGinn, who greeted couples at they arrived, called it a "great day, a joyous day."
"It's really wonderful," he said. "A new civil right is going to be recognized in this great civil institution."
Keith Bacon and Corianton Hale of Seattle, who celebrated their six-year anniversary the night before, hugged and kissed to loud cheers and camera flashes as they took their vows before one of the 16 local judges who volunteered to officiate the weddings on Sunday.
"We're totally thrilled," Bacon said. The couple had done a commitment ceremony in August but said this day was particularly special.
"We had looked at this as maybe a day we would sign a piece of paper and seal the deal, and instead we're having this huge party being thrown in our honor," Bacon said. "It's just mind blowing."
Nancy Monahan, 57, a retired petty office with the Coast Guard, waited outside before the weddings began with her partner of 14 years, Deb Needham, 48.
Monahan was wearing her uniform, and Needham was wearing an ivory dress and jacket and matching hat. They said they wanted to join the large wedding event at city hall because of the significance of the day.
"It's not very private, but very historic," Needham said, to which Monahan added, "And very awesome."
Some courthouses, including in King and Thurston Counties, opened right at midnight, and started marrying couples. Private weddings are expected to take place across the state, as well as some other public events, including the marriage of two couples after the end of the first act of a Seattle Men's Chorus performance at Benaroya Hall in Seattle. The Paramount Theater in Seattle was also to host a large wedding reception for couples.
Hundreds of gay and lesbian couples picked up their marriage licenses as early as 12:01 a.m. Thursday, but because of the state's three-day waiting period, the earliest weddings could take place was just after midnight, early Sunday morning. In King County, home to Seattle, more than 600 same-sex marriage licenses were issued by Saturday.
Robin Wyss, of Seattle, said that the wedding ceremony to her partner, Danielle Yung, was "more emotional than I thought it would be," in part because Yung is five months pregnant.
"Our friends are here, it's a beautiful space and there's all of his love and appreciation," she said. "We've been thinking about this as more of a political celebration for all of Washington state, but obviously it's very meaningful for us and our future child as well."
At the Thurston County Courthouse just after midnight, five couples were married, including Jonathon Bashford, 31, and Matthew Wiltse, 29, both of Olympia.
The couple, together for 10 years, just had a large commitment ceremony in September when they registered as domestic partners, but said they wanted to be among the first to legally marry.
"We weren't going to wait one second longer," Wiltse said.
Last month, Washington, Maine and Maryland became the first states to pass same-sex marriage by popular vote. They joined six other states — New York, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont — and the District of Columbia that had already enacted laws or issued court rulings permitting same-sex marriage.
Couples in Maryland also started picking up marriage licenses Thursday, though their licenses won't take effect until Jan. 1. Maine's law takes effect on Dec. 29. There's no waiting period in Maine, and people can start marrying just after midnight.
Washington Gov. Chris Gregoire and Secretary of State Sam Reed certified the election results of Referendum 74 on Wednesday afternoon, and the law took effect at 12:01 a.m. Thursday. Same-sex couples who previously were married in another state that allows gay marriage, like Massachusetts, will not have to get remarried in Washington state. Their marriages became valid here as soon as the law took effect.
The referendum had asked voters to either approve or reject the state law legalizing same-sex marriage that legislators passed earlier this year. That law was signed by Gregoire in February but was put on hold pending the outcome of the election. Nearly 54 percent of voters approved the measure.
The law doesn't require religious organizations or churches to perform marriages, and it doesn't subject churches to penalties if they don't marry gay or lesbian couples.
Married same-sex couples will still be denied access to federal pensions, health insurance and other government benefits available to heterosexual couples because the 1996 federal Defense of Marriage Act, known as DOMA, bars federal recognition of gay unions.
The U.S. Supreme Court on Friday said it will take up gay marriage sometime during the current term. Several pending cases challenge the federal benefit provision of DOMA, and a separate appeal asks the justices to decide whether federal courts were correct in striking down California's Proposition 8, the amendment that outlawed gay marriage after it had been approved by courts in the nation's largest state.
This forum page is for people to make their comments and opinions on. So make your opinions and comments, but you don't need to direct them to people who don't believe your agenda. And there doesn't have to be any name calling, which I've been guilty of in the past. Therefore, when I give my opinion, let it be that and please don't direct your negative comments towards me just because I don't follow or believe in your agenda.
Sodom and Gomorrah returns. I will never understand the Homosexuals mind thinking this is a natural way of life. Â Obviously it does not make sense. Â It is just another accepted issue that will get worse. Now, we have a state that has legalized perversion and drugs. What next? The creation of the human body was not designed for this life style. Â If you believe in the Creator, Evolution, big bang theory, you still came out as a male or female. Â It amazes me the desire of these genders who want to Marry in a church when they are mad at God for making a mistake. It is very confusing, and It just doesn't make any sense. Â
@reneemarie1169 The story of these two ill-fated cities is the single most influential vehicle for the transmission of prejudice of a entire group of citizens . The sad irony is that the story originally had nothing whatsoever to do with homosexuality not to mention there is no credible evidence of the existence of the Christian god or these two cities.
@reneemarie1169 I think you are confused. Gay men did "came out as a male", they came out as males who are attracted to other males. Also, I have yet to encounter a homosexual who is "mad at God for making a mistake". Some don't like God's followers, and to be honest I can't blame them for that.
I find homosexuality repulsive, and abnormal behavior, but the problems we face today far outweigh the fact that two people of the same sex have entered a legal union. There is just so much more important issues today than something as trivial as this.
Any person who pastor's a church and yet agrees to marry a gay couple has a church that needs to rethink who is leading them as well as that 'pastor; needing to sit down and take some time to read his Bible. It is not biblical to web two persons of the same sex nor is it ordained by The Most Holy GOD. I Corinthians 6:6>>Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 11Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.
@Rhonda "nor drunkards, nor revilers" so nobody will inherit the kingdom of God. Why are you so focused on only homosexuals? Why not focus on the "covetous", especially considering that we are in the season for celebrating greed? Why not focus on "idolaters" when so many are venerating a dead tree in their homes?
 @Rhonda OK....I'll bite.
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Your quote says absolutely nothing about marriage.
Now when their spouse passes on, they will be responsible for their bills. They will have all the pains that come with being married as well as the benefits they are thrilled about.
Why do the pro-gay comments, no matter how nasty not get deleted even when they are flagged? Name calling, rude remarks? If you make an anti-gay comment it is taken off. Is it discrimination? Anti-gay people have a right to speak up too. Many people believe gay marriage is wrong an immoral. They too have a right to express their opinions. Does being gay make people think that everyone has to agree with them?
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@Pointblank "Anti-gay people have a right to speak up too" By all means start your own website. You don't own this site and therefore you don't have a "right" here.
@JTesla....According to what you just stated, neither do you.
 @Bdou Duh.
Take today's situations into the future and what do you see?
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- Continued reduction of births among hetero couples. "non-Hispanic whites are projected to become a minority of the population (47%) by 2050"
- Continued increase in gay (5% of the population) marriages.
- 25% of gay couples have or adopt children.
- The Hispanic population views gay marriage less favorably than whites.
- The Hispanic population has a higher birth rate than whites. "Minorities accounted for 93.3% of the nationâs population growth from April 1, 2010 to July 1, 2011"
- The median age for the white population is getting older while non-white is getting younger
- Foreign-born women tend to have more children on average than U.S.-born women.
- Divorce rate for gay couples is less than hetero rate
- Education level for gay couples is greater than hetero
- Education level for Hispanics is lower than whites
@TimBurr The only point that is remotely influenced by same sex marriage (what this article is about) is your second one regarding âContinued increase in gay⦠marriagesâ. With or without same sex marriage gay people would keep doing what they are doing and it won't affect any of those other items.
@TimBurr What do I see?
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I see you're a paranoid fearful biased person....
The whole idea about being GAY is , so you dont have to Marry.I suspect the BULLY gay mafia will push for sooo much more of their abnormal behavior to be dumped on us.
 @HOSS I predict your account will banned shortly....and probably should.
People positing all these nasty and spiteful things here are the real evildoers and need to be ignored. I'm happy for all of these couples. Most of these people getting married have been together for YEARS, some DECADES. This does not change the fact that they're still in a relationship (and would continue to be even if this law hadn't passed), it simply means it's recognized by the law and they receive the same benefits as a couple that a hetero married couple would. Marriage is a religious institution for many people, but for most people it is a LEGAL institution and has nothing to do with their faith. Atheists marry all the time. Marriage is only a religious institution if you are of a religion that considers it so.
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Congratulations everyone!
Lots of love in that news clip of the couple, friends, family and exes. Wishing them a lifetime of joy!
 @whirledworld I know!  All those smiling faces make up for a lot of the awful news around lately.
Excellent trolling tonight - the idiots are schooling and biting!
"Marriage" has many meanings!
Who really cares what they do to and with each other! At least the birth rate won't be going up!
 @jpk Just because they are gay doesn't mean they cannot have children. Plenty of same sex couples have children, whether it be through a donor, a surrogate, or adoption.
 @Jenni S.  @jpk ...
it matters not how, where, what, when, it still takes one male and one female to start the process, whether it be in a bottle, dish, womb,whereverÂ
 @Jenni S. Feel sorry for the children who have to grow up in shame.
 @Pointblank  @Jenni S. The shame is, Pointblank, that there will always be people like you and your spawn who will bully these kids based on who their parents are. I'm the product of a mixed-race marriage, I know all about how it feels to be judged for who my parents are. People like you felt I should have been ashamed, but I couldn't be more proud of my parents. You were raised by "traditional" parents and you turned out to be a judgmental bigot. How pathetic are you.
 @Jenni S.  @jpk Or just bangin..
How ironic that as time has gone by heterosexuals have ran from marriage by the droves, calling it an outdated and unnecessary arrangement. Now homosexuals and lesbians have begged, marched and fought for the right to have that piece of paper. What was that line from Amok Time:
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"After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all as wanting. It is not logical; but it is often true."
@Scotty9 If your marriage is so bad, get a divorce. I for one love my spouse of 12 years and even though she is against gay marriage (no body is perfect), I would marry her all over again.
 @Arguendo  @Scotty9Â
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 Our society has morphed. Our expectations of what a happy marriage looks like have changed. People have unreasonable expectations and do not have the tenacity or drive to work on them. We have turned weddings into spectacles and divorce into an online experience. Getting married and having children should be one of the most difficult things we can do, but any two idiots can do it.
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My marriage of 30 years is doing just fine and I look forward to my first daughters wedding next summer. Believe it or not they are both still virgins and have been getting ongoing counseling. No guarantees, but I think they are off to a good start.
 @whirledworld  @Arguendo In this day and age, where people's morals and values change from day to day based on the way they "feel"and where self-control is rarer still, I am always impressed by young people who see the specialness of a sexual relationship as well as the risks (pregnancy, disease, hurt etc.) and choose to control themselves.
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TMI? Really? LOL! You think saying that two people are virgins is TMI? Yet the next story will be about some teacher seducing her students by the car load or so in so's 5th marriage. That's okay, but two people who chose to view sex as a beautiful gift from God, who CHOOSE to save it for that special person they will marry is TMI? See how warped our society has become? The things we value have been distorted and exchanged for the corrupt. Is it any wonder we are imploding from within?
 @Scotty9  @Arguendo "... Believe it or not they are both still virgins and have been getting ongoing counseling..." yikes that is a little TMI. The ONLY ones who need to know or care about their virginity status is themselves. This  virginity BS is over-rated because how do you think the  younger survivors of rape/molestation feel about that concept being touted as bent concepts such as a thing of pride/worthiness /clean living? I think people should just shut up about it and lead the most respectful and compassionate lives that they can and not play: "I'm better than some/the rest of you... because I have a: not had intercourse yet or:b) found a way to pretend to  people I have not had intercourse yet"
and brag about something as silly as a concept of "golden virginity".
 It's what's in their hearts that  is the ONLY thing that counts...not where their bodies have been.Â
 @Scotty9 We always want we do not have, and once we get it.........
My heartfelt congratulations to the newlyweds.Although I personally am not interested in having a gay marriage,I'm overflowing with sheer happiness over the victories of the recent election from the President to gay marriage.IMHO!when the religious zealots, the one's who believe that only they have a pipeline into their version of God, give up, it will be a great day.I never once found the "exceptions list" on the christian's God's love. He/she not a politician.After reading the bible multiple times,I got the impression that God loves everyone.Beyond that, it's just a bunch of religious nutcases who want America to run according to their religious beliefs. Sorry, but it doesn't work that way.However, it we're going to let religion run America, ask them which religion? Would they be okay with Sharia (religious) law? I'm thinking they'd go berserk if you even ask them. These religious zealots are just religious corporations who want to control us.This is why I'll take a pass on Christianity.There are just way too many hypocrites and just plain mean people. This is a civil rights, legal issue, not a religious one. Get your religion out of my government.
 @noneofyourbizzness ... you are the epitome of what has, temporarily, gone wrong in this country...not being part of the 47% I guess leaves me disgusted and hopeful we will one day recover and the "noneo's" of the world grow-up and take responsibility....
 @noneofyourbizzness Try reading the Bible with your eyes open next time.
The dive into depravity continues.
 @Robert Your comment proves it: that bigotry just doesn't end ...
Yucko...not a pretty picture....
 @KHEB what do you care? It's not about you, so MYOB.
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 @Fed up Fed  @KHEB OH!
@KHEB @Fed up Fed @Fed I suppose it's a good think that your mere exsistance is irrelevant.This past election was a sign of that.If you party continues to go down the path that you have chosen,it will be non exsistant for the new generations.
 @Fed up Fed    @Fed .. I don't like this behavior from any groups...especially the same-sex couples...yes I am biased and not much will change my mind..guess I had responsible parents...
@Fed up Fed ...
 ...I wasn't talking about any of the photos or particular people...I was talking about the whole sordid deal.  I find it nauseating ,disgusting, and something I'll do my best not to think about.  Let us hope all the preposterous  and ludicrous behavior exhibited between same sex couples on the street will now be behind closed doors â¦.behavior such as walking with their hands in each otherâs jeans, tongues deeply embedded in each otherâs throats, etc. I donât like seeing heterosexualâs exhibiting these traits let alone people of the same sexâ¦.public displays only serve to further inflame and alienate â¦.cognitive, confirmation biases will always existâ¦whatever you have to do, do it behind closed doorsâ¦that goes for all overly dramatic behaviorâ¦â¦Â
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Glad for them, took way too long.
There are 13 states that still have anti sodomy laws in effect. They still have yet to win over the supreme court
@lee986321 Hope they keep their laws. Shows they have the sight to keep things clean.
 @lee986321 your picture in your profile proves how very immature and uneducated YOU really are...before you post stupid commits, grow up....sodomy and love have nothing to do with one another.......btw, stap-on sales are up this season, is it on your wish list
 @lee986321 Seems like everything there is a gay topic you are all over it.. I have found people like you are actually gay and can't come to terms with who they are.. How sad for you.. But in the mean time, try not to spew you misery on others..
 @lee986321 No. Lawrence v. Texas in 2003 invalidated sodomy in those 13 states. 9 years ago your statement would have been true, welcome to 2012.