Trial underway of parents accused of starving adopted children
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LONGVIEW, Wash. -- The trial began Monday for the Longview parents who recently made national headlines after they were accused of starving their five adopted children.
The boy who was in the worst shape described his life with Rebecca and Jeff Trebilcock. He said he was made to drink his own urine and that he and his four adopted sisters were denied food while his mother is overweight and his father was obese.
The defense said a stomach flu and other medical and psychological conditions were the reasons for the kids' malnourishment.
The boy who was made to drink his own urine is now 14 years old. He said his adopted parents forced him to perform chores in the cold with no jacket or shoes. He was often forced to eat outside from a bucket the Trebilcocks called "the trough." The boy said the Trebilcocks would make him stand on the porch in the cold and they or the couple's biological children would douse him with water.
James Smith, a deputy prosecutor, showed a picture of the boy and his biological sister at the age they were when adopted -- both healthy and even a little plump. Then Smith showed a picture of the boy in his hospital bed. He was extremely thin after years of living with the Trebilcocks. When he was rushed to the hospital last year, he weighed as much as a six-year-old -- just 49 pounds.
The Trebilcock's lawyers accused Child Protective Service officials of feeding the boy a high-fat diet -- to "fatten him up" -- instead of the vegetarian diet he had been on.
"Not to refer to the children to bovine by any means, but it's a simple affect of what happened when they provided the children that type of diet after coming off a healthy diet for a number of years," said Kevin Blondin, Jeff Trebilcock's lawyer.
The defense said the boy lost so much weight because of a flu bug that ran through the family and that Fetal Alcohol Syndrome was also to blame. They also said the boy has a problem telling the truth and said the Trebilcocks had to stop him from eating pet food instead of regular food. The boy, however, told the judge he ate dog food and goat food because he was so hungry. Prosecutors, however, said the proof of what happened in their home is in how the boy and his sisters have all put on weight. The boy has gained more than 60 pounds and grown seven inches since being out of the Trebilcock home where a gate with bells was put on his door so he couldn't leave his room. He also told the judge the Trebilcocks installed another warning system in case he or his sisters tried to get more food.
The Trebilcocks are putting their fate in the hands of the judge, who allowed media to record the boy's audio during the trial but wouldn't allow his face to be shown by media. The Trebilcock's lawyers made the rare move of not having a jury trial because they think it's the only way they can get a fair trial due to media coverage. Lawyers sometimes use that tactic when they have a weak case and don't think there's a jury that would have a kind view of their clients.
This whole case is upsetting to me. I am the mother of two adopted FASD siblings and understand parenting special needs children can be difficult.Â
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I also know First Hand how difficult it is to find support and help in the state of Washington. The school my children attend refuses to even identify FAS/FASD as a special need therefore they do not have to educate themselves about the specific issues FAS/FASD children may have. Instead the children are identified based on the type of medication a shrink might be trying to use to see if it helps a child with the classic lack of Impulse control many FAS/FASD children suffer. In Everygreen School District they do not recognize FAS/FASD and I currently have a lawyer working on that issue for my youngest.
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I was not able to help the older child with the school system--instead our family attempted to use the support system for children. We had the HIGHEST level of mental health intervention for our child. We were ADVISED to build a box in our garage and put our child in it when she was out of control. We were told to put alarms on her bedroom door, and a motion detector in the hall. After SEVERAL years of the highest level of service there was No Improvement. We were advised by the Sheriffs department that we should let her break the law so she could get "Residential" treatment via the criminal system.
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Currently our children are now being raised in two different homes and two different states because I took the older child back to the state of Oregon to get the support services. She is doing Very well after a year in residential treatment.Â
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I would also like to comment on the fact that I did not know until our children's adoption was being finalized that there would be an "Adoption Assistance" check sent to us every month.....until they were 18. Special Needs children adopted from Foster Care come with Money! Time 5 children there should have been enough money for the parents to eat very well..... Â
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I am not sure how I feel about this situation....however, to me the fact the children are doing Well Now means a lot to me....
I'm just at a loss as to why these people went to the expense and time consuming process of adoption? Wouldn't it have been cheaper in the long run to just hire illegals to work on the property?
They said on the news that the couple chose to go before a judge, because thay did'nt feel they could get a fair trial due to media coverage. I think they Knew that if a jury hears the testimony, they will most likely be found guilty. I think the judge will find that also. I hope they receive a long senntence, and are never given the chance to get ANY of their children back, including their biological children.
yeah mommy and daddy dearest, Im not buying it. there are so very many vegetarians who are happily healthy. Though I shouldnt because its not right, Id like to see pictures of their natural children at the same ages. and that the tip of my personal "guilty without a doubt" iceburg.
And, from what Ive heard, Im disapointed that she wont be in general population in prison for her own safety and well being. Too bad the kids didnt get the same thing!!!!!!
what is good for the goose is good for the gander, punishment = starve the adults, I just cant bring my self to refer to them as parents
These two, plan to plead not guilty? there are Medical and Blood tests that can Confirm malnutrition.
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The couple in this trial are man & woman therefore heterosexual...to say your comment is out of left field is putting it mildly. What was you point other than hatred and bigotry?
@DickCheney2016  Stay on topic...you know what that is, right? What has one got to do with the other? Time for you to go.
 @DickCheney2016 Have you lost your mind ? What on earth would make you make a comment like that ? This is a straight couple who adopted these children..  You must be an Oregonian, born bred and dumb as a bag of rocks !
Actually if you attempt to read the article, the couple is from Washington - do they have remedial reading courses in whatever state you are from?
 @dougrpdx HEY! Don't knock Oregonians! I am an Oregonian and I don't like this comment either. You are just as bad as DickCheney2016 to be jumping to conclusions. There are bad people out there, we can't blame any group for it, it just is.
 @DickCheney2016 And who are you to tell me who I can and cannot marry?
 @DickCheney2016 Gays? uhhhhhhhh that is a man and a woman. Might want to read the article before you comment?
Christ- of course the kids were starved- look at them...there was none left over!
It's clear these two individuals, I refuse to acknowledge them as parents, should be jailed and treated as they treated their adoptive children.  I also take issue with the lawyer, Kevin Blondin, who in defending these two makes public statements so clearly ludicrous as to be criminal.  Some lawyers are worse than their clients.
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Seems like most people are more angry at these two lowlifes because they are fat, not because they abused children. Society has bought the recent American rant about obesity hook, line, and sinker. Those that have never struggled with a weight problem, and there are many, have not just jumped on the obesity hatred bandwagon, you have nearly toppled it! Not every fat person is a low-life. Not every skinny person is a low-life. Low-life's come in all sizes. Most male serial killers are not fat, but they are vermin just the same. Obesity is the new gay, or black, or whatever hatred stream we are on at any given time in this HATE filled country. There are many, many reasons people become obese. It isn't a lack of character. It is metabolism, education, cravings, lack of time, medications, genetics, etc. As many reasons as we have come up with for alcoholism as a disease. We forgive alcoholics because they have a "disease". For them, we don't just say "put down the bottle", like we say for the obese "put down the fork". We recognize that there is more to the picture, but we have no, no, no sympathy for someone that has fought a weight problem since the age of 5. We expect an alcoholic to never touch booze again, but an obese person can't walk away from food like that. They have to maintain a balanced intact for life. Try it sometime those of you that are so quick to throw hatred at a medical problem. These people belong in jail for ever, not because they are fat, but because they abused children. It's really simple. Try to stay on track all you "better than everyone else" posters on this site. You all show me how truly childish and ignorant America really is. We have to have one type of person to HATE at all times. Now it is obesity, what's next? Everyone with red hair, again?
 @ConfusedByYou  These two evil animals are FAT!!! And it's relevant! They tried starving their children!!!Â
 @Sara They did starve their adopted children. But they didn't starve their born children. That's why whether they are fat or not is irrelevant. They are fat, yes. So are 60% of the population, yet not all 60% starve their children. That's why it's irrelevant. It has nothing to do with the fact they are despicable, horrid, cruel, evil people. It only describes their physical features, not their mind. The mind IS evil, the fact that they are fat is NOT! Get it? Thought not, too deep for you to understand. Obviously.
@ConfusedByYou@60 @Sara  These two evil animals are FAT!!! Some of the food they shoved in their mouths should have been fed to their ADOPTED children! Maybe they wouldn't be so FAT if they had! Get it?!
@ConfusedByYou@60 Your screen name suits you.
 @Acacia Wildwood  @60 Yes, it does. People that love to hate people for their shortcomings confuse me. You are right. People that are prejudiced against something as simple as being overweight, or black, or Asian, or Mexican, or any other category you can come up with confuse me. Simple mindedness, cruelty, hatred, and violence, molesting children, starving children, abusing animals, taking advantage of anyone just because they can, those people confuse me. People that refuse to see, hear, understand the simple truth of life confuse me. We are all flawed. We are all less than we should be. We all do bad things, and make bad decisions. Some are abused, treated cruelly, and yelled at by strangers just because they are overweight, or some other reason that just sets someone off. We all need to grow-up. We all need to improve in some way. We all don't see that. Those are the people that confuse me. I'm not confused about anything but ignorant, hate mongers. Yes, my screen name suits me. If you read it correctly, that is.
I don't care what they say (medical condition, flu) ... a 13 year old boy that is 49 pounds is unacceptable!  I have three boys my oldest is 13 and he is at least twice that weight, my five year old is 45 pounds and he is not fat.  This is clearly a case of favoritism (natural children over adoptive) and a sever case of power trip  and bullying. Â
Is it that easy to become an adoptive parent? Â If it were only that easy to conduct a public hanging for these vermin. Â I hope these kids can recover from this tragedy.
There has be a special hell for these kind of people. You don't treat an animal that way.
This disgusts me on so many levels. How dare they sit in court posing  for all the world to see. Not one bit of regret in that picture. They both look bored. I hope they both have coronaries while sitting in court. What kind of sick mind starves kids then punishes them when they find them trying to eat dog food? A painful death to these scumbags.
It makes you wonder how 2 such despicable people could have found each other. Obviously, unhealthy relationship that probably fed on itself. Seriously. What bad fate for these 5 kids to wind up under their roof. Thankfully, rescued and glad the older boy can testify. He will find strength in exposing them and putting them away for the rest of their God-Awful lives.
I sure wish jerks like these two would not only get lots of jail time, but they should get the exact same treatment the victims went through
I don't know all of the facts yet. None of us do. But doesn't that picture really get to the heart of what our society has become? Eating large........Living large !
 @Rob C Not sure what you mean, RobC. These folks sound like they were living damn low down.
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@shewiz .....really?? Between the two of them they are at least 400 pounds ! 400 hundred pounds !!! That takes a lot of food and a bit of money.. Think about it !
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And, the very same can be said of the very wealthy. Even Romney won't divulge his wealth or how he sent jobs abroad, for cheaper labor, when he was with BAIN. No honesty there, Rob C.! What has happened here at home is everyone's fault --including mine.
@jallard --How is this my fault?
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You can not blame the rest of us for what these jerks did. That makes zero sense. We are responsible for our own actions. How is it my fault whrn you make a stupid choice? You have taken this story down a whole different path .
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I don't even know you!?! However, in reference to  Rob C's comment in which he states,Â
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"But doesn't that picture really get to the heart of what our society has become? Eating large........Living large !"
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Is by it's very nature what the wealthy are accustomed to in one regard. In yet another Rob C speaks of the epidemic of obesity in this country. Much like the obese who crave food as if it were a drug, the wealthy crave even more wealth and the power that it gives them. Â
@jallard .....and......Damn it. How can you be so consumed with you political ideology that you cant see the potential harm for the children.. Shame on you for being part of the self absorbed.....self centered egotists of todays society.
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Trust me I see the children's side more than you know or realize, believe it or not. Having working in a juvenile residential treatment facility for youthful offenders, as a house manager, I have seen children from all walks of life, from the poor to the very rich. I have seen the abuses parents inflict on their children. We once had wealthy set of parents who wanted to pay us just to keep their only child: Because they were too busy with their lifestyle of entertaining other wealthy individuals. (The father was a executive for a well known computer company and the mother was a States Attorney.) More than that Rob C., I was molested when I was preteen by a very prominent citizen of my hometown.
@jallard ......STOP IT !! Not everything has to be politicized. Can't you stay on the human part of this case.???
Forget about the fact that the "parents" are both obese and obviously didn't suffer from the flu bug that supposedly ran through the whole family, they are sadists to be able to do all of the sick things that they did. Their attorney is no better based on his statements. They are swine and should be treated in the EXACT same manner. These types of cases are where "an eye for an eye" really would do some good. They'd be groveling within days.
I'm just heartsick over this. I was raised in a European family...we all ate. When you came to our home, it wasn't "how are you? So good to see you!"  It was..."Here! Here is your place, sit, eat...do you want more of  this? Try this!" It was a life around food. Food is the comfort...to the soul and the body. Yes, yes...I know! Moderation!  But set that aside. I'm the mom. I nourish. How could this woman do this to these children??? I can't fathom it. I simply can't understand how she could allow this to happen. I hand fed a group of orphan kittens for gosh sakes!...I'd do no less for children or anyone who is hungry. I just can't imagine this treatment. They should be ashamed to look in the mirror at themselves. Fat...puffy....yes FAT. I to am considered "fat" still. Losing...but still "fat".  But mine comes from giving and tasting and to make perfect for everyone at my table. Not so I can see someone, much less a child, not getting fed what I prepare and take such joy in seeing them eat.  I cry. This is a crime. You two will get yours. BIG. I hope.
Looks like they wanted the food for themselves.
I have nothing but hate for this couple. Disgusting.