Boston fraternity raises funds for pledge's gender transition surgery
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BOSTON (AP) — A college fraternity in Boston has raised more than twice the money needed to pay for a new pledge's gender transition surgery.
The Phi Alpha Tau fraternity at Emerson College began raising money for sophomore Donnie Collins early this month after his insurance company wouldn't cover his breast removal surgery. Their initial goal was $4,800, but donations had exceeded $17,000 by Wednesday afternoon, more than double the procedure's $8,000 price.
In a note posted this week with a thank-you video on YouTube, Collins said the surgery with a Springfield plastic surgeon would be scheduled this week.
"I don't even know what to say because the words 'thank you' don't do it anymore," Collins, 20, said on the video.
"I know that for me, personally, feeling guilty and feeling like, 'Am I worth all this?' has been huge theme of my existence in general," he said. "You just have to let it go because if people want to help, you have to let them help you."
Extra money donated in the ongoing campaign will go to a group that gives grants for similar surgeries for transgender people.
Phi Alpha Tau treasurer Christian Bergren-Aragon said he thinks a major reason the campaign caught on is because it defies the stereotypes of fraternities, which are often associated in popular culture with hedonism, poor grades and drunken antics.
"(I) don't think a lot of times, the good side of fraternities are shown, and we were able to do that, which is awesome," he said.
Collins, a screenwriting major and Virginia native, pledged just this month with Phi Alpha Tau, which Emerson director of student life Jason Meier described as a progressive, forward-thinking fraternity with many gay men. He said the fraternity is demonstrating values the school emphasizes for fraternities, including caring unconditionally for people and respecting human dignity.
"To see them living it ... it's giving a lot of worth and meaning to a lot of these traditional fraternity values that groups say they live by," he said.
Bergren-Aragon said Collins had only been a member of the fraternity for 11 days when they started the campaign, and they didn't tell him about it for a week. The campaign was motivated by two things, he said. First, "Donnie Collins is such a great person; he always puts other people before himself, and I couldn't think of another person who I'd want to raise this money for."
He added, "It was also a good opportunity for our organization to actually demonstrate what we stand for."
The Phi Alpha Tau fraternity at Emerson College began raising money for sophomore Donnie Collins early this month after his insurance company wouldn't cover his breast removal surgery. Their initial goal was $4,800, but donations had exceeded $17,000 by Wednesday afternoon, more than double the procedure's $8,000 price.
In a note posted this week with a thank-you video on YouTube, Collins said the surgery with a Springfield plastic surgeon would be scheduled this week.
"I don't even know what to say because the words 'thank you' don't do it anymore," Collins, 20, said on the video.
"I know that for me, personally, feeling guilty and feeling like, 'Am I worth all this?' has been huge theme of my existence in general," he said. "You just have to let it go because if people want to help, you have to let them help you."
Extra money donated in the ongoing campaign will go to a group that gives grants for similar surgeries for transgender people.
Phi Alpha Tau treasurer Christian Bergren-Aragon said he thinks a major reason the campaign caught on is because it defies the stereotypes of fraternities, which are often associated in popular culture with hedonism, poor grades and drunken antics.
"(I) don't think a lot of times, the good side of fraternities are shown, and we were able to do that, which is awesome," he said.
Collins, a screenwriting major and Virginia native, pledged just this month with Phi Alpha Tau, which Emerson director of student life Jason Meier described as a progressive, forward-thinking fraternity with many gay men. He said the fraternity is demonstrating values the school emphasizes for fraternities, including caring unconditionally for people and respecting human dignity.
"To see them living it ... it's giving a lot of worth and meaning to a lot of these traditional fraternity values that groups say they live by," he said.
Bergren-Aragon said Collins had only been a member of the fraternity for 11 days when they started the campaign, and they didn't tell him about it for a week. The campaign was motivated by two things, he said. First, "Donnie Collins is such a great person; he always puts other people before himself, and I couldn't think of another person who I'd want to raise this money for."
He added, "It was also a good opportunity for our organization to actually demonstrate what we stand for."
This is the most confusing mess ever!! Just imagine navigating the dating arena today::
straight men, straight women
bi men, bi women,
gay men, gay women,
straight men that want to dress like women, straight women that want to dress like men
gay men that dress like women, Â gay women that dress like men
men that dress like women and want to surgically become women
and women that dress like men that want to become men
men that have already become women thru surgery
women that have already become men thru surgery
then add the para sexual and a-sexual and whatever other strange freaking thing..
HOW MANY IS THAT? Â For Pete's Sake! Can you imagine trying to find a date in THAT mess?
Sheesh!Â
Is this a man, a woman or what? Â Weird story.
What an up-lifting story! Â Transgender is one of the most difficult conditions out there I'm sure; so many people are so quick to judge parents, genetics, calling it a behavior....this was really a cool story!!
I'm so glad the younger generation is finally taking the lead in supporting the differences of others without judgement and condemnation.
@noneofyourbizznessÂ
Unless of course you disagree with them and then watch how much condemnation you will get.
I wonder what it will be like in 100 years?
@Lips Hopefully people will accept each others differences like these young men are doing.
I cannot say that I understand all of this or that I am completely comfortable and unbiased about all this because I don't understand it and I can never walk a mile in those shoes but what I can say is that I support Donny and people like him as I support the rights of everyone to pursue happiness as they choose which includes loving whomever they wish.
Obamas first campaign was change
Sex change inducement would be illegal in college sports
Will it have to repledge?
@Bert Don;t be stupid.  And this is a GUY, ok?  HE identifies this way so MALE "it" is.
I'm confused: Phi Alpha Tau fraternity at Emerson College began raising money for sophomore Donnie Collins early this month after his insurance company wouldn't cover his breast removal surgery. Their initial goal was $4,800, but donations had exceeded $17,000 by Wednesday afternoon, more than double the procedure's $8,000 price.Â
His...Hers breast removal surgery? Even the writer of the story doesn't know what's what.Â
I hope he/she/it gets lots of mental help with the left over money.
Maybe this is a new form of hazing?
@The Resistance Seemed pretty obvious to me.  Guy, transgender, (body female, ID male).  Look it up.
@BCH mom @The Resistance No Thanks
@The Resistance Future wall streeters
@The Resistance "Maybe this is a new form of hazing?" that's what I was thinking. Hazing has gotten really hardcore.