For Medal of Honor recipient, pride mixes with sorrow for the fallen

WASHINGTON (AP) — A veteran who helped "defend the indefensible" at a vulnerable Army outpost in Afghanistan received the nation's highest award for military valor Monday at a tearful White House ceremony that also honored the eight men who did not survive a Taliban attack.
President Barack Obama lauded former Staff Sgt. Clinton Romesha's bravery in fighting back an intense daylong barrage by enemy fighters. The Taliban descended on Combat Outpost Keating in the mountains near the Pakistan border at 6 a.m. on Oct. 3, 2009, shaking Romesha out of his bed into what Obama said has been called one of the most intense battles of the war in Afghanistan.
The Americans were outmanned 53 to more than 300, but most survived against those odds. "These men were outnumbered, outgunned, and almost overrun," Obama said.
Romesha, 31, listened to the commendation while fighting back tears, sometimes unsuccessfully, the families of his fallen comrades sitting together and crying near the back of his East Room audience. Other troops who fought that day also watched as the president placed the medal hanging from a blue ribbon around Romesha's neck.
"I'm feeling conflicted with this medal I now wear," Romesha told reporters outside the West Wing after the ceremony. "The joy comes from recognition for us doing our jobs as soldiers on distant battlefields, but is countered by the constant reminder of the loss of our battle buddies, my battle buddies, my soldiers, my friends."

Eight U.S. soldiers were killed in the fighting and other 22 wounded, including Romesha, who was peppered with shrapnel from a rocket-propelled grenade in the hip, arm and neck.
But he fought through his wounds to help lead other soldiers to safety, defend the burning camp from encroaching Taliban fighters, personally taking out at least 10, and retrieve the bodies of the fallen Americans.
Romesha also served twice in Iraq and is the fourth living Medal of Honor recipient for actions in Iraq or Afghanistan.
Romesha grew up in the small town of Lake City, Calif., and deployed out of Fort Carson, Colo., fulfilling a tradition of military service shared by his grandfather, his father and his brothers. He now lives in Minot, N.D., with his wife and three children and works in the oil fields.
His youngest son, Colin, in a tiny little suit and bow tie, got the somber ceremony off to a light start just before his father and the president entered the room. He scrambled behind the podium and played peek-a-boo with the audience before one of the president's military aides chased him off the stage back into his mother's arms.
Obama described Keating as among the most remote outposts in Afghanistan, a collection of concrete and plywood buildings among trenches and sandbags at the bottom of a steep valley. The president said a later investigation found the terrain "gave ideal cover for insurgents to attack" and left the outpost "tactically indefensible."
"Our troops should not ever be put in a position where they have to defend the indefensible," Obama said. "That's what these soldiers did for each other in sacrifice driven by pure love."
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This guy is a hero, in that there is no doubt.
Thank you for your sacrifice and that of your comrads.
Sir, thanks to you and your men...
Thank you!
Thank you Sgt. Romesha for your unselfish actions and for your service. You are a true American.
Thank you, Staff Sgt. Clinton Romesha for your service, "above and beyond".
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".....at the bottom of a steep valley."  Sounds like a very bad place to put an outpost. It has ambush written all over it.
 @Saltire Your right. Almost the same situation with the French at Dien Bien Phu back in the '50's. It had an airstrip, but was in a valley surrounded by mountains. The French defended this because at the time the French general in charge thought the Viet Minh would not be able to get guns on the mountains to fire down on them. General Vo Nguyen Giap proved them wrong. Long story short, after the Viet Minh destroyed the airfield, Dien Bein Phu could not be properly resupplied, and it was just a matter of time before the French surrendered. This effectively ended French colonialism in Vietnam. That situation ended bad for the French, and divided Vietnam into the north and south.
And while there were causalities at Combat Outpost Keating, thanks to the bravery of Staff Sgt. Clinton Romesha, Keating battle ended on a positive note.
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Thank you for your service Staff Sgt. Clinton Romesha.
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Amen to all of the positive comments about this young man and thank GOD he doesn't have to go back to that horrible country. Stand tall Staff Sgt. Romesha for you have served your country well and may the LORD take all of the allied fallen into his loving arms because they gave the ultimate sacrifice.
And to think that they are all volunteers. Makes ya proud. I have no data to back it up, however, it seems to me that at more than 90% of honorees being of enlisted ranks for the Iraq/Afhan; that is a statistic not seen before. Not to belittle any officers, the point is my percieved shift in enlisted soldiers getting thier due. Is this because it is finally acknowledged that they are the main war fighters? Or are they being given more of a role on the battlefield than past conflicts/wars in roles that Lt's would have had?
We salute you, "Staff Sargent Romesha", thank you for your service, we hope all veterans who suffer survivor guilt, have support from community, from veteran services, to many with PTSD, are overlooked until after their suicide, Audie Murphy understood and broke the silence, more hero's need to speak out. Blessings to your family. Â
@Social Glimpse Amen to that comment!
I saw an interview of this man on television. He's the real deal. They basically ran into a compound filled with a large, unknown number of Taliban and absorbed gunfire long enough for the trapped American soldiers to get free.They had to go BACK in to extract the bodies, rather than leaving them behind. This isn't some Spartan warrior trained since the age of 7 to die in battle, or a jihadist waiting for Mecca, this is some guy that joined the Army and went and did that, and then did it again so his fallen comrades could be returned to their families. Our world is greater with men and women like this in it.
AÂ true hero to be honored!
I have heard of that outpost and it's inability to be defended.
Who ever picked that place put everyone at risk..