Historic day as same-sex couples receive marriage licenses
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SEATTLE (AP) - Two by two, dozens of same-sex couples obtained their marriage licenses in Washington state early Thursday, just hours after Gov. Chris Gregoire signed a voter-approved law legalizing gay marriage.
King County, the state's biggest county, opened the doors to its auditor's office in Seattle just after midnight PST to start distributing marriage licenses. But hundreds of people had lined up hours earlier, snaking around the downtown Seattle building on a chilly December night. By noon, nearly 400 licenses had been issued in Seattle.
"We knew it was going to happen, but it's still surreal," said Amanda Dollente, who along with her partner, Kelly Middleton, began standing in line at 4 p.m. Wednesday.
Washington state now joins several other states that allow gay and lesbian couples to wed. Gregoire and Secretary of State Sam Reed certified the election on Wednesday afternoon, as they were joined by couples who plan to wed and community activists who worked on the campaign supporting gay marriage.
Because the state has a three-day waiting period, the earliest that weddings can take place is Sunday. Same-sex couples who previously were married in another state that allows gay marriage, like Massachusetts, will not have to get remarried in Washington state. Their marriages will be valid here as soon as the law takes effect.
"This is a very important and historic day in the great state of Washington," Gregoire said before signing the measure that officially certified the election results. "For many years now we've said one more step, one more step. And this is our last step for marriage equality in the state of Washington."
Last month, Washington, Maine and Maryland became the first states to pass same-sex marriage by popular vote. They joined six other states - New York, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont - and the District of Columbia that had already enacted laws or issued court rulings permitting same-sex marriage.
Referendum 74 in Washington state had asked voters to either approve or reject the state law legalizing same-sex marriage that legislators passed earlier this year. That law was signed by Gregoire in February but was put on hold pending the outcome of the election. Nearly 54 percent of voters approved the measure.
The law doesn't require religious organizations or churches to perform marriages, and it doesn't subject churches to penalties if they don't marry gay or lesbian couples.
King County, the state's largest and home to Seattle, and Thurston County, home to the state capital of Olympia, opened at 12:01 a.m. Thursday to start issuing marriage licenses. While King County stayed open all night, Thurston opened briefly to issue licenses to 15 couples who had entered a lottery, then closed and reopened at 7 a.m.
Pierce County opened its doors at 6:30 a.m., Clark and Island counties started issuing licenses at 8 a.m. and other counties were holding regular business hours.
Asked whether the middle-of-the-night marriage license roll-out was necessary, King County Executive Dow Constantine said, "People who have been waiting all these years to have their rights recognized should not have to wait one minute longer."
In Seattle, the mood was festive. Volunteers distributed roses, coffee and fruit. Couples canoodled to keep warm. Champagne was poured. Different groups of men and women serenaded the waiting line, one to the tune of "Going to the Chapel."
"We waited a long time. We've been together 35 years, never thinking we'd get a legal marriage. Now I feel so joyous I can't hardly stand it," said 85-year-old Pete-e Petersen, who with her partner, 77-year-old Jane Abbott Lighty, were the first to get a license.
After meeting 35 years ago on a blind date in Sacramento, Lighty and Petersen will get married on Sunday. The couple has been out buying shoes and clothes for their wedding.
At the Thurston County courthouse on Thursday morning, Deb Dulaney, 54, and Diane McGee, 64, both of Olympia, arrived just before 9 a.m. The couple has been together for 16 years, and they moved to Washington state in 2005 from California, where they were registered as domestic partners.
McGee said they wanted to get married there but were unable to before voters passed 2008's Proposition 8, the amendment that outlawed gay marriage after it had been approved by court ruling. A federal court has since struck down Prop. 8, but an appeal on that case is still pending before the U.S. Supreme Court.
Dulaney and McGee registered as domestic partners in Seattle in 2005, and then through the state when the state's domestic partnership law passed in 2007. Now they wanted to take that final step of marriage, even though they plan on moving back to California in the coming months to be closer to family. They haven't set a wedding date but said a simple service is planned within the 60 days that their license is valid.
"I feel much more moved by it than I thought I would," Dulaney said. "I thought we were just going to come here, get the paperwork and go home. But now, it's like, 'whoa.'"
"It's for real now," McGee told her.
Maryland's law officially takes effect Jan. 1, however couples can start picking up marriage licenses on Thursday, as long as the license has an effective date of Jan. 1. Whether clerks of court issue a postdated license is up to them, however. They are not required to do so. Maine's law takes effect on Dec. 29. There's no waiting period in Maine, and people can start marrying just after midnight.
In addition to private ceremonies that will start taking place across Washington state this weekend, Seattle City Hall will open for several hours on Sunday, and several local judges are donating their time to marry couples. Aaron Pickus, a spokesman for Mayor Mike McGinn, said that more than 140 couples have registered to get married at City Hall, and weddings will begin at 10 a.m. In Olympia, a group of local judges has offered to perform wedding ceremonies just after midnight on Sunday at the Thurston County courthouse.
Washington state has had a domestic partnership law in place since 2007. The initial law granted couples about two dozen rights, including hospital visitation and inheritance rights when there is no will. It was expanded a year later, and then again in 2009, when lawmakers completed the package with the so-called "everything but marriage" law that was ultimately upheld by voters later that year.
This year, lawmakers passed the law allowing gay marriage, and Gregoire signed it in February. Opponents gathered enough signatures for a referendum, putting the law on hold before it could take effect.
There are nearly 10,000 domestic partnership registrations with the secretary of state's office. Most same-sex domestic partnerships that aren't ended prior to June 30, 2014, automatically become marriages, unless one of the partners is 62 or older.
That provision was included in the state's first domestic partnership law of 2007 to help heterosexual seniors who don't remarry out of fear they could lose certain pension or Social Security benefits.
Among those getting marriage licenses Thursday was gay rights activist Dan Savage, who will marry his partner Sunday with other couples at Seattle City Hall.
"It's been a long fight but it ain't over," he said. "We still have to fight (the Defense of Marriage Act) and there's 41 other states where same-sex couples aren't allowed to marry."
King County, the state's biggest county, opened the doors to its auditor's office in Seattle just after midnight PST to start distributing marriage licenses. But hundreds of people had lined up hours earlier, snaking around the downtown Seattle building on a chilly December night. By noon, nearly 400 licenses had been issued in Seattle.
"We knew it was going to happen, but it's still surreal," said Amanda Dollente, who along with her partner, Kelly Middleton, began standing in line at 4 p.m. Wednesday.
Washington state now joins several other states that allow gay and lesbian couples to wed. Gregoire and Secretary of State Sam Reed certified the election on Wednesday afternoon, as they were joined by couples who plan to wed and community activists who worked on the campaign supporting gay marriage.
Because the state has a three-day waiting period, the earliest that weddings can take place is Sunday. Same-sex couples who previously were married in another state that allows gay marriage, like Massachusetts, will not have to get remarried in Washington state. Their marriages will be valid here as soon as the law takes effect.
"This is a very important and historic day in the great state of Washington," Gregoire said before signing the measure that officially certified the election results. "For many years now we've said one more step, one more step. And this is our last step for marriage equality in the state of Washington."
Last month, Washington, Maine and Maryland became the first states to pass same-sex marriage by popular vote. They joined six other states - New York, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont - and the District of Columbia that had already enacted laws or issued court rulings permitting same-sex marriage.
Referendum 74 in Washington state had asked voters to either approve or reject the state law legalizing same-sex marriage that legislators passed earlier this year. That law was signed by Gregoire in February but was put on hold pending the outcome of the election. Nearly 54 percent of voters approved the measure.
The law doesn't require religious organizations or churches to perform marriages, and it doesn't subject churches to penalties if they don't marry gay or lesbian couples.
King County, the state's largest and home to Seattle, and Thurston County, home to the state capital of Olympia, opened at 12:01 a.m. Thursday to start issuing marriage licenses. While King County stayed open all night, Thurston opened briefly to issue licenses to 15 couples who had entered a lottery, then closed and reopened at 7 a.m.
Pierce County opened its doors at 6:30 a.m., Clark and Island counties started issuing licenses at 8 a.m. and other counties were holding regular business hours.
Asked whether the middle-of-the-night marriage license roll-out was necessary, King County Executive Dow Constantine said, "People who have been waiting all these years to have their rights recognized should not have to wait one minute longer."
In Seattle, the mood was festive. Volunteers distributed roses, coffee and fruit. Couples canoodled to keep warm. Champagne was poured. Different groups of men and women serenaded the waiting line, one to the tune of "Going to the Chapel."
"We waited a long time. We've been together 35 years, never thinking we'd get a legal marriage. Now I feel so joyous I can't hardly stand it," said 85-year-old Pete-e Petersen, who with her partner, 77-year-old Jane Abbott Lighty, were the first to get a license.
After meeting 35 years ago on a blind date in Sacramento, Lighty and Petersen will get married on Sunday. The couple has been out buying shoes and clothes for their wedding.
At the Thurston County courthouse on Thursday morning, Deb Dulaney, 54, and Diane McGee, 64, both of Olympia, arrived just before 9 a.m. The couple has been together for 16 years, and they moved to Washington state in 2005 from California, where they were registered as domestic partners.
McGee said they wanted to get married there but were unable to before voters passed 2008's Proposition 8, the amendment that outlawed gay marriage after it had been approved by court ruling. A federal court has since struck down Prop. 8, but an appeal on that case is still pending before the U.S. Supreme Court.
Dulaney and McGee registered as domestic partners in Seattle in 2005, and then through the state when the state's domestic partnership law passed in 2007. Now they wanted to take that final step of marriage, even though they plan on moving back to California in the coming months to be closer to family. They haven't set a wedding date but said a simple service is planned within the 60 days that their license is valid.
"I feel much more moved by it than I thought I would," Dulaney said. "I thought we were just going to come here, get the paperwork and go home. But now, it's like, 'whoa.'"
"It's for real now," McGee told her.
Maryland's law officially takes effect Jan. 1, however couples can start picking up marriage licenses on Thursday, as long as the license has an effective date of Jan. 1. Whether clerks of court issue a postdated license is up to them, however. They are not required to do so. Maine's law takes effect on Dec. 29. There's no waiting period in Maine, and people can start marrying just after midnight.
In addition to private ceremonies that will start taking place across Washington state this weekend, Seattle City Hall will open for several hours on Sunday, and several local judges are donating their time to marry couples. Aaron Pickus, a spokesman for Mayor Mike McGinn, said that more than 140 couples have registered to get married at City Hall, and weddings will begin at 10 a.m. In Olympia, a group of local judges has offered to perform wedding ceremonies just after midnight on Sunday at the Thurston County courthouse.
Washington state has had a domestic partnership law in place since 2007. The initial law granted couples about two dozen rights, including hospital visitation and inheritance rights when there is no will. It was expanded a year later, and then again in 2009, when lawmakers completed the package with the so-called "everything but marriage" law that was ultimately upheld by voters later that year.
This year, lawmakers passed the law allowing gay marriage, and Gregoire signed it in February. Opponents gathered enough signatures for a referendum, putting the law on hold before it could take effect.
There are nearly 10,000 domestic partnership registrations with the secretary of state's office. Most same-sex domestic partnerships that aren't ended prior to June 30, 2014, automatically become marriages, unless one of the partners is 62 or older.
That provision was included in the state's first domestic partnership law of 2007 to help heterosexual seniors who don't remarry out of fear they could lose certain pension or Social Security benefits.
Among those getting marriage licenses Thursday was gay rights activist Dan Savage, who will marry his partner Sunday with other couples at Seattle City Hall.
"It's been a long fight but it ain't over," he said. "We still have to fight (the Defense of Marriage Act) and there's 41 other states where same-sex couples aren't allowed to marry."
You may have a piece of paper but you can't phyically consumate your "marriage" according to the dictionary definition because you have the same plumbing. LOL!
 @Gary Wise Genitals are the most important part of a marriage, yes.
Historic as in the down fall of mankind?
 @Freedom1267 If this can take mankind down, mankind is pretty damn weak.
Sad, sick and wrong....but, people are just plain blase to right and wrong anymore.
@Debbie457 well, you're just plain "blase" to liberty, aren't you? I would like to formally invite you to move to Afghanistan where religions tyrants and half-wits believe that women speaking their minds in public is sad, sick and wrong.
"Historic day". Maybe so. I just wonder how this will go down in the longer lens of history. Not the "history" of yesterday.
I just vomited in my mouth.
 @Pointblank I will never visit washington again, first legalizing pot then this!
 @diamonddiva1221  @Pointblank Next they'll have Sharia Law!
@diamonddiva1221 @Pointblank Now that gay marriage will be decided by the SCOTUS,what are you going to do if gay marriage becomes the law of the land? I suppose you could move to a Muslim country because most of the free world allows gay marriage.
 @Pointblank Happiness is a gay friend!
 @tigress I'll be your gay friend!
 @Pointblank I'm so glad you didn't choke on it.
 @Pointblank Just glance in the mirror?
 @tigress  @Pointblank I think its odd that you can be as obnoxious as you would like about your pro gay opinion but if someone is equally obnoxious and opposes your view you act like an immature child.
@diamonddiva1221 @tigress @Pointblank so you admit that Pointblank's comment was equally obnoxious but you haven't said anything about that. Interesting, isn't it?
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 @HarryJuku People tend to be attracted to people who look similar to themselves, I guess it goes double if you're gay because people of the same sex tend to look more similar to each other than those of the opposite gender. So the chance of someone who's attracted to the same sex getting a partner that looks like them might be a bit higher.
They don't call it homosexual for nothing.
 @HarryJuku I've noticed the same thing with straight couples as they age.
 @HarryJuku Probably similar tastes as far as hair cut/color, similar preference for how they dress. And if they are the same size, means they can share their closets.
One big fraud....The fact is, Marriage is between a man & a woman.
 @sortbait Not a fact, an opinion. Polygamy has plenty of historical basis, including in religious texts that many people base their believes in support of one man one woman only marriage on . So why can't a marriage be between a man and any number of women?
@sortbait as long as divorce is legal, gay marriage should be legal. Nobody's interested your idea of what's "fact" there, Osama.
 @Playanekes  @sortbait And gay marriage means gay divorce, and gay divorce means less gay marriage. So shouldn't you support gay marriage?
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 @HarryJuku  @sortbait " Heterosexual couples have made an absolute mockery of the institution of marriage." And now it's the homosexual couples chance to do so.
@HarryJuku @sortbait indeed. As a faithful, never-divorced heterosexual who has been married for 12 years and has no desire for homosexuality, I think he's an idiot too. In fact, anybody who has had a divorce or an affair is going to be publicly embarrassed for it if they preach their drivel to me about the sanctity of marriage.
It may be an advantage if if comes to where these "marriages" are recognized by other states, then our CCP licences would also be legal in other states. Seems only fair.
 @last boyscout I won't be satisfied until I can marry my gun in all 53 states.
@last boyscout Seems fair to me.Unfortunately my fellow liberal friends in states like California will never go for that unfortunately.
 @last boyscout Please educate me as to what CCP is
 @pdxd Sorry, can also be CHL, CCW, meaning licence to 'carry' a concealed weapon.Â
 @Civ Where did I say that the feds regulate concealed weapons permits? All I said is that my belief is that if someone passes a federal background check, then they should be able to carry concealed weapons across state lines.
 @pdxd  @last boyscout pdxd, you may be surprised by this but the feds don't regulate CHL or  CCW permits. that is a state permit regulated at the state level .  If the feds decide to force the acceptance of gay marriage licenses on the rest of the states then I would expect that they have the same power to force New York City and California to honor my CHL,
 @last boyscout You may be surprised by this, but I think if someone passes a federal background check, then they should be able to take their licensed concealed weapon with them into any other state.
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Whatever, I'm just awaiting that day when we can once again marry our 13 year old cousins without people judging us!
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 @negativerep Because now no one will judge gay couples now that they can get legally married in the state of Washington?
Even though most of the "snake handlers", "Talking in tounges" and FLDS sects think that children should marry at 12, most states require the bride to be 16 and the groom to be17 with the parents permission. So you might have to wait a few years.
 @beeker You beat me to it!
@negativerep I think it's ok in the Ozarks, but you have to be able to play the banjo
 @Pvpbw LOL! I more had the 1800's in mind after watching "Dark Shadows" but that works too!
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Woohoo! A great big congrats to my neighbors to the north!!!!
A historic day where perversity is celebrated and the utter oxymoron of gay marriage is put into place. Truly a sad day.
 @Robert For your childs sake, I hope they don't turn out gay, because I'd hate to see them live a life of enduring your hatred towards their homosexuality.
 @pdxd  @Robert I hope that no ones children turn out gay! There are enough freekazoides running around already!
@Pointblank @pdxd @Robert You don't get a choice.There have been gay people since the beginning of human beings.
@Pointblank @pdxd @Robert I hope that nobody's kids get cancer, lupus, or raped. I guess I'm just not as single-mindedly homophobic as you and the Taliban.
@pdxd @Robert Dont listen to that cesspool minded deviant, 8 yr old logic stupidity, he is a pothead 8 yr old we Adults now will need to Baby sit.
@Zechariah okay but based on your mastery of language, you're not educated enough to be a babysitter.
 @pdxd If you can't take the heat, go hide behind a different blog. They probably have them just for people like you!
 @Zechariah Why do you say that?
you need babysitting.
 @Zechariah I don't smoke weed, but thanks for now giving me a reason to file slander or libel charges.
@Robert These are good people who just want the same recognition for their families (not to mention legal rights and benefits) as the rest of us, and you would deny them that simply because itâs against your âmoralsâ. Your family isnât any less of a family.
@Vince009 Robert, this day is a definite Sad day in humanity. The sodomite want Special rights and pushing thier filth on the public has worn down their resolve to keep noormal Male-Female relationships protected.
Now sadly, CESSPOOL filth spews into the land via washington gamorrah.
@Zechariah the word is Gomorrah, you halfwit. Not "gammorah." Anybody who's ACTUALLY STUDIED THE BIBLE KNOWS THIS.
 @Zechariah If you've ever received or given oral satisfaction to someone who is opposite of your gender, that would make you guilty of sodomy too!!!