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Broken Healthcare System

When our son was born at 36 and a half weeks he was not initially breathing and needed to be resuscitated. As a result, he was immediately admitted to the NICU where he initially had help breathing and then later for help feeding and for Jaundice. He was released 8 days later seemingly as healthy as could be other than still being jaundiced. The first 5 weeks he was home after that were great. He was a little fussy, but overall seemed to be doing well and developing fine. At about 7 weeks old I started noticing a marked decrease in food consumption and started keeping track of how much he was eating - it seemed to be at least half or one third what he should be eating for his weight so I made an appointment to see the doctor. When we saw the doctor (at OHSU) they asked us a series of questions and said it sounded like acid reflux so they gave us some medicine (zantac) to help counter the acidity.

Initially when we got home and gave it to him it seemed to help for the first few days but then got worse and the amount he was eating didn't increase at all. We went back the following week to the doctor to follow-up and for the two-month regular check up. The doctor that day said he looked like he was breathing too hard and fast and asked us to get an x-ray. The x-ray revealed that he had an enlarged heart and we were told that he needed to be admitted right away for further tests.

After an initial echo, the resident cardiologist told us we needed to be transferred to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit as his heart was a lot worse than he looked and acted on the outside. After several more tests over the next few days, the cardiologists told us that he had a congenital heart defect and that the problems he had with his heart were extremely rare to be had all at once, namely a large aneurysm in his left ventricle that is the same size as his ventricle, as well as mitral valve stenosis/regurgitation. Based on their findings of cardiomyopathy, which in my understanding basically is a catchall when there isn't a set diagnosis, the doctors have stated that his heart is too weak for surgery as the whole heart is damaged and that his only option for survival is a heart transplant.

With that understanding, we set about trying to find a transplant facility for him since OHSU, where he currently is, is not one. The closest one was Seattle Children's Hospital so we contacted them to arrange a transfer. After two days of talking back and forth, Seattle's said that unless our insurance could guarantee coverage of the transplant (which of course they couldn't since at 100,000 coverage we'd probably already maxed out with our stay at OHSU) they could not accept him, unless we were willing to put up 1.5 million dollars!

After contacting a few more facilities in California (Loma Linda and Stanford (Lucille Packard)), we were essentially told the same thing. All of these facilities seem willing to accept the consequences of him not having this much needed surgery than to be responsible for any of the cost of treating him. It breaks my heart looking at him to realize that money stands in the way of his survival.

If a child will not survive because of a lack of funds than our healthcare system is broken and needs to be fixed. Please contact your state representatives and request mandatory healthcare coverage for children. No child should have to go through this, and no parent should have to make that choice.

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Robin says ... on Wednesday, Jan 20 at 6:17 PM

Your family and precious baby boy are in my prayers. How do I get people on Facebook to find out about your story? Maybe with their help we could get your message out there. Everyone needs to hear about this beautiful child. He needs all of our help!

mayra says ... on Thursday, Mar 12 at 4:26 AM

answer with a message if you are willing to do this and I will know because I will read all the message that you are giving to us thank you and I hope your baby gets better with all my heart I wish for your baby to get well .

MAYRA ` says ... on Thursday, Mar 12 at 4:23 AM

This is so sad can you give us the address where the baby is so we can go and see him and pray for him and I know a person that maybe be able to help your baby but all he ask is to always talk with the true that is the only way he can help people.

Kim says ... on Friday, Feb 27 at 5:15 AM

This is extremely SAD!!! I wish there was a way for Obama to see all the details concerning this matter. I'm sure something would be done relatively soon if he did.

Linda says ... on Thursday, Feb 26 at 6:06 PM

I am an RN and this story makes me ill.I see this stuff happen all the time.If you are on welfare or rich you can get the care you need but if you are in the middle you are not able to no matter how hard you work.Please help if you can.God bless.

Courtney says ... on Thursday, Feb 26 at 5:14 PM

We are doing all we can for Laith. My friends and I have donated and are sending to words out to all we know and work with in the medical communities. We have contacts in both Oregon and WA and will continue to work until Little Laith get this!

BellaDonna says ... on Tuesday, Feb 24 at 8:32 PM

Is there any way to make a temporary move to Washington to qualify for the transplant? Is Seattle's CH requesting that people applyig for assistance be a resident in Washington State for 'x' amount of time? My heart is breaking for you!

Shontai says ... on Tuesday, Feb 24 at 11:48 AM

This is exactly what is wrong with America. I spent 10 Days with my son in a children's hospital. I have seen first hand how people/CHILDREN are not treated equally. Seriously, we can pay $75,000 per game to a Sports Star but not help CHILDREN!!!!

ivan says ... on Tuesday, Feb 24 at 11:31 AM

that is wrong when our government can provide help to 14 kids that have no father figure. from tax payers money. but to help one child in need off help. what is wrong with this country. my family will have you in our prayers.

Chelsea says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 10:04 PM

DONATIONS ACCEPTED HERE: http://www.laithdougherty.info/ Help this baby live!

PortlandMom says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 3:21 PM

CONTACT SAINT JUDES. My friends son was diagnoised with a very rare cancer when he was very young and they helped her with the cost of any treatments and provided her a place to stay close to their hospital so she could be there.

Karen says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 1:00 PM

We will go out of their way to help sick kids from other countries, but turn their heads and look the other way for the children whom are citizens of our own country, even if they do have insurance. When will we really start to care for our own???

Eric says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 8:32 AM

Hi. I would like to donate money to help to save this baby. However, I am not sure how---where to donate the money. Can someone help?

Tina Ware says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 8:27 AM

We live in such a wonderful place don't we? Sure until it comes to our healthcare sysytem. If it was one of our representatives children how would they feel to be turned down?? I will write on your behalf and mne. Many prayers to you and your family.

Steve says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 6:34 AM

Universal health care does not guarantee coverage for everything and to make it work financially limits are acutally placed on care. Canada's system requires up to a 50% income tax to keep it going but is still left with long waits for care.

Kelly says ... on Monday, Feb 23 at 5:43 AM

I've noticed a few people out there asking where they can donate. If you feel you can and want to contribute please do: http://laithdougherty.info/ Thank you to all who can and do!

Jen says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 11:40 PM

I cannot imagine the intensity of what you three are going through. I would love to donate and spread the word. Please post a website or web address so we can all make donations and help to give your baby the chance he deserves. Much Love.

Alison says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 11:31 PM

Where do we go to donate?!

Fred says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 11:27 PM

Can't we help? Where can we donate? If we can't help this baby, who can we help? We'll be praying. Everybody needs to send this to everyone they know.

Nicole says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 11:21 PM

I am so very sorry for this. It just absolutely makes my eyes well up. You should set up a donation center and go to every news channel you can. Your beautiful baby boy will be in my prayers.

Mother of 2 says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 11:21 PM

This is why we need Universal Healthcare. I bet that if any member of congress needed a heart transplant it would be done. A heart transplant is not just as simple as getting a physician to do the surgery. It takes a small army.

Ghadeer says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 5:16 PM

To Angel's comment, Yes Doernbecher accepts all children and that is where he is at but they ARE NOT a transplant center and they will not transfer him to one without a gurantee of 1.5 million dollars to the other hospital!

Kari says ... on Sunday, Feb 22 at 1:54 AM

Hi from Maryland, I am so sorry about everything you are going through. I just had a son 11-08-08. And can totally understand your frustration. I would go to the media. Every channel and raise hell, and tell your story, ask for donations. God Bless!!

cyberscryber says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 4:04 PM

It's crazy that we import children from foreign countries on charity basis to give them life saving operations, but cannot seem to help our own citizens. Maybe if you lose your job and have to go on welfare you'll be able to get help?

Angel says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 2:38 PM

This story doesn't sound right. Doernbechers accepts all children regardless of cost. So there must be more then what you are willing to share with the public.

Janel says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 2:34 PM

Take this to the media, set up a bank account, get donations! This is so messed up that no one will help you. The hospitals and Doctor's are as much to blame as the insurance companies!

Cherri says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 12:09 PM

I am so sad for these parent's and little boy. Our country has a extremely flawed health care system. The only option you have now is to get a divorce and hope and pray you can go marry a canadian so you and your spouse can save your baby! SAD REALLY

MARY R says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 10:49 AM

YOU ARE RIGHT, THEY NEED TO FIX THE HEALTH SYSTEM.MY BOYFRIEND HAS A SKIN CONDITION AND THEY DENIED HIM HEALTH COVAGE JUST BECUASE HE IS NOT DISABILITY. SOMEONE NEEDS TO FIX THE SYSTEM.

Cherrah says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 9:36 AM

I am in WA state but active in talking to my state representatives. I will send a letter today asking for national child care. I have a 21-month-old who had to have open-heart surgery just over a year ago at OHSU. My prayers are with you. God bless!!

Vera says ... on Saturday, Feb 21 at 9:34 AM

I thought doctors took an oath to save lives?

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