mom and her kids

Mom wins AGAIN!no grandparents rightS!!

Hello, my name is Haley Wiinikka. I am recovering addict and am a very devoted and caring mother of two. I recently just won again custody of my daughter lily after the second time with lilys granparent on her paternal side. She tried to win custody when i used methamphetamine in 2004. she recieved temporary custody and the case was dismissed a year and a half later. the judge then ordered against the law visitation for the grandmother. this was against the supreme court laws and the supreme court over turned the decision which took that visitation away. despite this because i knew my daughter lily loved her grandma i wanted to do the right thing by still letting her see lily. icontinued that for about three years until she started showing signs that she was allowing visits with her dad in jail. he has plead guilty to over 34 burgular and drug charges, he is still incarcerated. three years later she tried to get custody AGAIN after an attempt to say i had been using drugs all along but was a short relapse with admission,.With her own admissions to her daughters and husband to admittedly be using drugs also in her own house but i kept fighting for my daughter she lost that case as well. I would just like every girl or mom out there know there is a way and KEEP FIGHTING for your rights!!! Grandparents do no have rights in the state of washington! I am proud to say Lily is doing awesome in school and is loving life with her so close sister abigail! Thanks for listenening and hopefully i can get all the support ineed in this fight and give support if needed as well! Best of Luck! Haley Wiinikka

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lee98632 says ... on Wednesday, Oct 13 at 10:12 PM

Druggies are humans to, we are not to hate them, but we are to hate what made them..those of you who cast the first stone of judgment you will be judged aswell.."He who is with out sin let them cast the first stone"..Not mt words but Jesus own words.

good job says ... on Tuesday, Apr 13 at 1:29 PM

geese all the lady did was write about her experience.. everyone has addictions, issues, problems. she owned up, faced her problems and got her daughter back in her life. people continusously using drugs wouldnt do that. JOB WELL DONE GOOD LUCK!

glass house says ... on Thursday, Apr 1 at 5:47 PM

to all people who live in glass houses if u can throw the first rock then u have a right to comment... this girl has done everything she should have done to get her daughter back.. drugs a re a powerfull thing .. god bless u haley ...stay clean......

god bless,your friend says ... on Tuesday, Mar 30 at 7:40 AM

i am a recovering addict also i am very proud of you, always keep god in your heart and everything will work out haley. to the people that are saying these bad things it must b nice to b so perfect im sure they have never made a mistake in there life

Anonymous says ... on Tuesday, Mar 30 at 1:22 AM

Good Job Haley! Way to keep fighting for your rights and daughter!

Unknown says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 10:29 PM

U bums on here have nothing else better to do then put down a mother who got ahold of a bad drug in her past. The devil won the but gods winning now. All you need to do haley is keep fighting. Dont worry about what people say on here. Love ya sis!

unknown says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 10:26 PM

To all you bums who having nothing else better to do than put down a mother who has fought for her kids and succeded. Sure she had some mishaps cause the devil got ahold of her with that nasty drug but God will prevail and he will win. Love ya Sis!

Anonymous says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 9:43 PM

already declared me to be the person that lily lives with indefinately.. Good luck to others who may have read this POSITIVE story and can have some hope!

Anonymous says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 9:43 PM

so on a POSITIVE side my story was to be out there as an advocate for others who are struggeling.. i've been clean for a LONG time and have many have many hair and nail test to show for it. I DONT NEED SUPPORT FROM ANYONE, as supreme court has

Anonymous says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 9:39 PM

her reason is to get her granddaughter to prison the see her son. Is that right?

hailstorm1984 says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 9:35 PM

So is it possible for a Mom get to clean ? I think it is. These girls are little and will forget. This letter is from my daughter, HALEY, I praise her for getting clean and fighting and getting her daughter back. NOBODY knows this grandmother and

OnTheChild'sSide says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 8:38 AM

You tore up your Mommy card several times. The children really should go to a stable 2 parent responsible home. You winning this battle is no victory for the children in my opinion

you lose says ... on Monday, Mar 29 at 4:57 AM

I have no compassion for anyone who who uses drugs around their kids. Haley Wiinikka, you need to lose custody of your kids forever. They need an opportunity to grow up in a drug free enviroment, which you can not provide.

I agree says ... on Sunday, Mar 28 at 11:14 PM

Sorry but I agree with NoOneSpecialHere, you cant even stay clean for your kids? Hmm, Grandparents have no rights and the state does to little, we have to much of this in the news, kids paying for parents mistakes.. Sad

NoOneSpecialHere says ... on Sunday, Mar 28 at 11:03 PM

and why is this "news" ? ...the girls should be adopted out, since mother & grandmother are drug users, and "relapsed"...once [one relapse] is all it should take to have the girls taken away and placed in a safe & secure non-drug using home.

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